What can i do if this happens..?

Question

basically this hasnt happened yet but if it does im screwed.

my best friend was/is (im not sure) doing something that could really hurt her and i really wanted her to stop because i was worried about her. so i told her i was doing this other thing (equally as bad) but i wasnt. i had tried it out a few times but it didnt really do anything for me so i stopped. i told her this hoping to come to a sort of ill stop if you stop conclusion. it sort of worked and we havent really talked about it since.

but now im afraid if we fall out or just drift apart, she'll tell everyone because she likes to get revenge on her ex-friends and she has practically broadcasted to the school that this girl was bulimic before..

im just scared. because im not that kind of person and i dont want people thinking that i am.

Answer 1

If she's well known for telling porkies, no-one will listen to her anyway...slowly get your distance from her if poss...

Answer 2

not the kind of friend i would want, people that know you will know its not true. People who know her will know she tells lies for effect. Everyone else wouldnt care.

I would keep my distance from here as she is bad news. just get on with things and dont give her a second thought she is only going to bring you down in life.

Answer 3

you have to tell us what happened. well if she tells to everyone, you tell everyone that you were a good friend so you wanted her to stop it and lied for good. or while you were drifting apart, tell her that it was a lie it was for her to stop it and tell her that you didnt want her to her hurt cos you loved her. then whatever happens, you arent gonna be the bad one =)

Answer 4

Nice girl, this - saying things about people behind their backs if she no longer likes them. It reflects very badly on her, she seems very immature.

My thought: let her. Anyone who knows you knows what you're like, the rest don't matter. So if she says things about you, just smile and say something along the lines of 'yes, you'd never think someone like her would have such an active imagination, would you?' and laugh it off.

Really, don't worry about it unless it happens. Chances are you mgiht not have to worry about it at all.

Answer 5

Toughie. well it was really hard to understand what you are talking about because your trying to beat around th bush but i think you should just let her do what she wants to do if she chooses to be messy then let her.You should just relax,and if something happens then just get back revenge on her