What can i do in my marriage so i don't feel like a cat toy?

Question

I feel like a cat toy because i have to revolve around his schedule and when he is tired he does not want me anymore.

He works during the week and then comes home and is tired.

By 10 pm he is tired on Friday nights also.

On weekends we find ourselves having to get things done we are not able to get done during the week.

Saturday night is the only time i think he has any energy and that is when he WANTS AND NEEDS.

Many times i am exhausted because of everything we have had to do that day but he is suddenly amped up like i am during the week when he is tired.

Sunday he needs to get to sleep early so we can start the process all over again.

If he gets done with his day early during the week he expects that is the time i better decide or he decide if it is time to get frisky otherwise i am SOL.

How come he doesn't want to be up for "it" MOST of the time?

I DO sprinkle on PLENTY OF NIP!

Is this normal?

Answer 1

that's bad. we both work and have kids and we find time to have s*x average 2-7 times a week some times more. Morning and night 8). we get tired but you know once you start l*****g the energy just comes for no were and everyone sleeps happy.  talk to him, let him know how you feel. you should not feel that your sexual needs are not important but his are.

we have been together 5+ years

Answer 2

you can make it happen watch him shower... any more info would make this a p**n site.

Answer 3

This is a horrible situation, where both of you can sit, talk and resolve.