What can i do me and my hubby keep rowing?

Question

he wants women text friends and keeps saying he is single an at my whits end

Answer 1

It sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it. If you don't set down boundaries now or issue him with ultimatums he may just walk all over you.

Ask him why he is pretending he is single it may well be that he wants to be single. Ask yourself if you are willing to put up with this type of behaviour and be with someone who is possibly being unfaithful to you. Also be careful about the way you approach the situation, don't shout as this will provide him with an excuse not to open up to you.

Be a good listener and show him that you are willing to work out any problems that there may be in the relationship. If he still doesnt want to talk about it maybe he just isn't willing to work through your problems.

Unfortunately there are some men who dont appreciate what they have no matter how good it is so please try not to let his behaviour cause you to devalue yourself in anyway.

Answer 2

Why are you asking this question. It might be hard. Move on. Legally i think they call that mental touchier

Answer 3

Tell him to stop or leave him!

Dont let him get away with this

Answer 4

He doesn't respect you. I am  not surprised you keep rowing.  Is the relationship worth trying to save?

Answer 5

he just probably likes the thrill of it.

dont be too mad unless he starts cheating

Answer 6

just don't set fire to your bed.

Answer 7

talk to him nicely even if he starts to get wound up just keep yourself calm and explain that your hurt by the way he has been acting and calling himself single, if i was you i would be telling him that if he doesn't start respecting my feelings then he will be out the door