What can i do my husband is getting on my nerves he tries to tell me what to wear what i should do like job ?

Question

etc hes trying to control me and my daughter they are always arguing am stuck in middle hate being home am so depressed death seems only way out we been married 29 years dont want to be married anymore cant take anymore

Answer 1

get yourself some work place training and go get a job, it helps. Best of luck

Answer 2

get marriage counseling and go from there if he doesnt agree or want to work things out get a lawyer and leave him take time to work things out and think about a plan and get therapy that way you have something to fall back on and get money saved like now

Answer 3

If you don't want to be married any more,  file for divorce leave the child with him.

Answer 4

My suggestion is to immediately get professional help for your depression and thoughts of suicide.  

Answer 5

Why give up your life for this monster you have already given up 29yrs leave him now you have a life ahead of you away from this control freak you deserve better and are a much better person than he will ever be your peace of mind,happiness and your daughters are more important than that leave now and never look back do not take your life for this bully your daughter needs you and you owe it to yourself to show him you definately dont need him stay strong remember you are a beautiful person who deserves better

Answer 6

death is nt the way out wat abou ure daughter ignore ure husbend tell him its in his best intrests thatl freak him & and if u dnt wnt 2 be in tht marrige u dnt hav 2, 29 years is along time if u felt in anyway u had 2 stay with him thn by now if any time u sooo have the right to leave. i would never take tht u shouldnt hav 2 either tell him how u feel tell ure daughter u dnt like being used as defence in arguments and ure husband, tell him u dnt want 2 be married anymmore your glad u did coz u had sum gd times and his daughter wouldnt be here other wise bt now u jst dnt want to and both u and him deserve a working relationship. ingnor my spellin its rly bad & gd luck :)

Answer 7

Leave.

Switch the computer off, pack a little back of important documents, a little cash, some photo's and go.

This is not a rehearsal for a different life, this is the only one you have.

If your life is not the one you dream of, CHANGE IT, but do not throw away life, just change it. The world is a massive place you know.  Plenty of sofas to surf and places to see.  With your abilities you are  needed somewhere.

Answer 8

It seems like you dont have enough freedom in your marriage that you cant even express yourself. I'm so sorry for you, it's either you'll just have to put up with that kind of attitude or file for divorce.

Answer 9

Death is never an answer ur husband seems like a control freak bully tactics stand up to him please and be the woman u are if he is violent pack ur bags never look back and go find yourself within yourself u be amased there is probably a beautiful powerful woman in there x*x best of luck

Answer 10

i can understand why you want to be out the house all the time . but has he always been like this ' or just since he has been retired .my gran used to say 'most guys never grow up . boys toys and things .

so i'm thinking you are around 50 . your still young ' so get out there and make a new life for yourself .let the *** live with himself ' he will soon start crying .

Answer 11

Get a job (if you do not already) and leave him, you and your daughter would be better off..

Answer 12

wat du tell a woman with two black eyes?...

nuffin you already told her twice....

do as your told

Answer 13

I never like that song from MASH, Suicide is the only wait out.  Divorce is the only way out.  Please trust me, I have been there.