What can i do to change?????

Question

ok im 14 and i think i can be a lil femine i aint g*y but what can i do to change and be more masculine i really aint into sports

Answer 1

Not all guys are into sports. Remember that most girls around that age dig the tough muscle guys, but when they grow up they realize that what's more important is that the guy is caring, gentle, and smart. Most lawyers, company leaders, or famous people like Bill Gates never cared much for sports. If you want to be more masculine, just listen to cool rock music. It gets your blood flowing, and gives you more confidence and energy. You can also do push-ups or crunches to build some muscle. Nobody will question your masculinity if you have some muscle. Remember that lots of girls care about what's on the inside. If you're a little feminine, you'll have better chances of getting good girls because you can understand them better than a big muscle man. Best of luck! :D

Answer 2

Just be you, don't feel like you have to change. You are also young so the level of male hormones in you is pry low.. it will come with age and then no one will remember how you "used to be" but if you always are "in touch with your feminin side" then so what. Some girls appreciate a sincere good guy that can be compassionate and nice.

Answer 3

Hi,

I say change as soon as you can dude.

I grew up like that too...I am just 3 years older than you & I wish I could have done something when I was your age.

Just try...cuz you can make friends with other guys still...that will usually make you more manly...hanging out with girls makes you like that...I have more friends who are girls...I grew up with girls too....never had many 'manly father figures'....yeah my dad was a whimp....he cries too much...lol.. and my half brother moved out when I was 6...he is really manly cuz he grew up with guys in the block.

I got scr-ewed...

Join kick boxing or something to make you stronger & better at cordinating etc...then join a school team...make yourself better & better...trust me those guys will like you if you can play well...

Some guy I know joined the football team..were friends, but since he joined all these 'cool'  guys talk to him & whatever...

And well him being like 200 lbs & 6 ft tall helps & having a family of football stars helps...lol...

But half of our football team has short guys in it & they suck we always lose to our rivals...

Simple to act like a guy hang out with guys say & do more guy things talk about girls & how hot they are...don't say they are 'pretty'  say hot..change the way you come off to people ....being with girls just makes you more girly....and sorry but girls like you as a friend...not a boyfriend...they want guys who act like guys.....

Someone has to say it CHANGE...TRUST ME..I WISH I WOULD HAVE :\