What can i do to ease the break-up?

Question

My boyfriend broke up with me after 7 years together. I am absolutely shattered. It was over some things i said yesterday. I would do anything to take them back but he aint talking to me. I feel so c**p and all my friends are on holidays so i have no-one to talk to. What can i do?

Answer 1

find your depressed food...mines frosting i eat a lot of that ...and just cuddle up and read and watch tv get caught up on other things you have been missing out on or join some clubs and try making new friends.

Answer 2

send him text messages leave voicemails just to show that you really care and you really are sorry and would do anything to take them back. After that just give him time to cool off and think about what he really wants. If he loves you and thinks it could work between you two then he will come around.If not jus let the pain run its course and try to move on after a while.

Answer 3

Go for a walk.  Get out of the house.  Get your thoughts in order.  Say a prayer (if you pray).  Forgive yourself.  Every day gets easier.   Do anything it takes to make yourself feel better about yourself.  Join a continuing education class at your local community college.  (May I suggest karate - it's the best for getting out frustration and shaping up all at one time!)

I'm assuming you already apologized to him.  

There is no reason that someone would invest 7 years in a relationship and then break it off because of one thing you said.  If he did, he's ridiculous.  Maybe he just needs time to cool off.  But try not to pine for him in case he doesn't return.  Be the new free you!  

Answer 4

Go work out. Do whatever you need to do to keep your mind off of it or it'll drive you nuts.

1) Work out.

2) Go to the bookstore.

3) Go shopping

4) Go to the beach

5) Sit out in the sun...light therapy!

6) Read a book.

7) Go to the pet store or animal shelter. (Adopt a dog/cat)

8)Clean your house/apartment

9)Go to the movies

10) Call you ex BF and tell him he's a jerk for ending a 7 year relationship over words that were spoken in anger.

Answer 5

Ice cream and chocolate helps a lot.

Find a good book, television show, or watch some funny movies.