What can i do to get my ex-boyfriend back ?

Question

i left my boyfriend of 4 and a half years about 3 months ago.Things just weren't working, i was bored and was just a rutine.I met someone after i left him and was ust a fling . When he found out i was seeing someone he was devastated and he would call me and cry down the phone, i'd tell him just to accept it and he would find someone else soon.Well it didn't work out between us and a few weeks later i bumped into my ex at a party and theday after i realized what mistake i'd made leaving him..although the relationship wasn't working.I've tried and tried to get us back together but he doesn't want to know,he is seeing someone else now and it makes me so sad because i love him very much and i've called him on several occasions sad and asking for him to come back.He said he doesn0t love me anymore and that i was very cold towards his feelings when he was sad...but i really do love him and he won't answer my messages now and doesn't want to see me...I'm in sucha a state and have been like this now for 2 months..What can i do to get him back,,i know he loves me deep down...i really think it could work.Please help.

Answer 1

I wouldn't want any man that didn't want me. Why lower yourself like this ?

Have some pride and move on, you need to be strong and independant, no man is worth this.

Answer 2

It won't work girl. I mean, really think about this! He is your ex for a reason and the reason is because you got bored and it was fullfilling like a relationship should be. You need to move on and find someone that is more exciting for you that treats you like you want and need to be treated. If he wants to be so cold towards you now because he has what he wants and doesn't want to give you sympathy than fine, let him and the situation go! Stop calling, he found someone else so there is no reason to waste your time any longer. Good luck!

Answer 3

your living in a fairy tale world, you dumped him for valid reasons at the time and they will still stand move on and find some one else

Answer 4

Hmm... You never really know what you had. Till you walked away. I think everyone has done this before. It's grass is greener syndrome. You should leave him alone. If he wants you back. He will contact you. You have left the door open. Don't be a stalker. There is one thing that I know I hate.... Being bugged by Ex's. If it was me... I would tell you, You reap what you sow. Gain control of yourself. I think you are scared to be alone. And you are unhappy because he is happy without you! Next time don't be to quick to turn your back and cheat on people.  

Answer 5

never should of left him, hes moved on.... like you said to him "you just need to accept it and you will find someone else soon" he took your advice. sounds like you need to appreciate what you have more. because youll never know what you got till its gone.

Answer 6

if your ex isn't interested, I'm sorry, but you can't get him back

Answer 7

send him a picture of you topless and wearing red thongs in high heels

I am sure that will s***w him up and make him come back to you

Answer 8

you cant force this guy back with you, and that cant really be what you want.

all you can do is give him some time, maybe things wont work out with this new girl or he'll realize he really did love you...

but if you guys broke up, you probably did so for a reason. when you start to miss him, think about why you broke up with him in the first place.

chances are you'll move on before you'll ever get back together with him, and sounds like thats for the best.

good luck hun!

Answer 9

Too bad for you. You should have thought about that before you left him.  

Answer 10

if you really want him back,and i mean really want him back,really reallyreally,,pray,but be ready,i did this once and now im married to her,it works,,,sometimes too good

Answer 11

Why not take the advice you gave him: "Just accept it and you'll find someone else soon."  

Answer 12

I think you only want him now because you can't have him.  There's a reason you didn't work out and you need to think about why that is.  You obviously weren't happy.  However some people don't know wat they've got until it's gone.  Write him a letter, tell him how you feel.  But if he has moved on just let him go.

Answer 13

What goes around comes around.

obviously he still loves you but hes just trying to get the most attention he can, i know i would of done the same had you done that to me.

if you love each other you need not worry, things always work themself out.