What can i do to save relationship with my mom?

Question

my mom and i constantly fight, she has told me twice to leave and never come back, but because my dad didn't want me to go i stayed.

i'm not really a "bad" kid either. a's&b's in school, never suspended, play sports.

i don't know what i can do to.

Answer 1

u have 2 understand her

take the first step.u have 2 do something and dont be negative

u can make it better

she may feel u r bad or dont respect her

make her feel u knew ur mistakes and gonna 2 be better 4 her sake only and will try 2 correct it all coz u wonna 2 be close 2 her just coz u love her

believe me that will make her feel better

coz she is ahuman ,wona 2 feel love ,kindnessand peace

she doesnt mean 2 hurt u believe me

just try it but remember:  4 the sake of her

hope that helps and good luck

Answer 2

u don't say how old u r, but if ur still in hi skool, she certainly can't make u move out.  i'm so sorry this is happening, but there may be something else going on w/ur mom that u have no idea about.  i know from my own experience that women's hormones can go all wacky and that can make them take out anger on their loved ones that are right there, when it appears that there is nothing to be making them angry.  and indeed there really isn't, just their feelings that have gotten messed up by hormonal changes.

hopefully you can talk to your mom -- or talk to your dad and see if he can talk to your mom -- about it.  do some research on 'symptoms' of menopause &/or premenopause (see www.womentowomen.com -- they have a LOT of good info, it really helped me figure out what was wrong with me) and present it to your mom.  there's help out there, and most likely she has no clue why she feels like she does.

good luck!!!!

Answer 3

How old are you? Why do you fight? What are the fights about?  Why did she tell you to leave? This is a tough question without more info.

Answer 4

accuse her of being sour and jealous then out line everything she does do this very calmly

Answer 5

your mother sounds very bitter, i used to fight with my mother all the time when i was younger but as i grew up i understood some of the reason's why. both of you try to talk to each other without raising your voices prove how grown up you are by talking to her like an adult