What can i do to stop this??

Question

i have gone to a new school this year and its all good...until now..this one chick that i dnt even know keeps going off at me and calling me childish...she keeps gossiping about and telling other poeple things that i dnt even know about..she has turned all my best freinds agianst me and i have done nothing to her!!please help...

Answer 1

Oh you poor thing life at school is hard enough without this s**+* going on, why not a) ignore her b) confront her and say "hi, just wondering why you are saying nasty lies about me and yet you don't know me"?

C) explain to your so called friends that you don't know her, and cannot understand why this is happening

d) Go to her place and when her parents answer the door, just explain what is happening and could you please talk to her and ask her to stop, as it is really stressing you enough by going to a new school let alone her doing this, and then since her parents are involved hopefully they will sit both of you down and ask her what the h**l is she doing, this would be so embarrassing for her.

I would say her parents will give u support and put an end to this cruelty.

Good Luck honey, I hope all works out, let me know the outcome.

Minny :-)

Answer 2

only thing i can say is, from my own experience, do not show response. ignore her. don't let it effect your way of living. showing her she's had an effect on you, is exactly what gives her all the ammo she needs. she could say something that has absolutely no valid meaning, but if you get angry, you just gave her a full clip of ammo to fire upon you with. if you really wanna freak her out, be really nice to her, she might get pissed off and annoyed enough to actually stop lol. maybe, but don't quote me on that, just a thought.

anyway i know it might seem hard, and it is, i wont lie. but, you have to be strong and can not allow people like her to hold you back. moving on and ignoring her wont only show her it's not working, but will stick it to her without you having to lift a finger of vengeance against her. also show that you are a strong individual. and if those friends of yours who turned on you are your true friends in the end, they'll see that to and come to their senses. in fact you might gain more friends in the process. if all goes as planned. i wish you luck.  

Answer 3

She is just jealous or needs attention  

Answer 4

This is a form of bullying, just ignore anything she does to your face and talk to someone you trust about the situation like another friend. I had the same thing happen to me and I was alone until I decide to talk to my best friend who was turned against me. I spoke to her when she was alone and told her how stupid the situation was, and cleared up the rumours about me. I also told her that if she went and told the bully what I'd said to her I wouldn't care because I'd had enough. I also spoke to my teacher once after a big argument. I suggest you approach your best friends, it honestly worked for me. If they won't listen to you then they aren't you friends, find people who are nice; and speak to a teacher if you feel there's no other option.

Answer 5

tell that b*tch to stop..!

Answer 6

She has problems, probably jealousy. and is being a bully.

this is a problem in schools lately, one thing is to stand up to her.

that isn't easy, but also tell your school counsilor or teacher or principal.  I know that might be difficult too, but it helped my son, he was being bullied too-  and tell your parents.  For my son, it stopped, but the school authorities did step in along with parents and the situation is resolved now.

Its not easy, but standing up to her with people around (friends) is a good start, be calm but FIRM. and discredit her lies.

Good luck, and don't be afriad to get adults involved, it will be uncomforatable for a short while, but pays off in the long run!

Answer 7

either A: you ignore her or B: yell abck and be just as big of a *****. Girls are like this hun sorry to say. its school.

Answer 8

You have two options:

1- Ignore her and make sure she's not around when you're talking to your friends.

2- Confront her and tell her to stop her childish games.

I seriously doubt she's turned all your friends against you. If some of them did so, then they weren't really your friends to begin with right? Find new friends and ignore the idiots.

Answer 9

sounds to me like shes a bit insecure and wants lots of attention. try ignoring it. show her that you are tough and that teasing and back stabbing doesn't faze you.

Answer 10

There are 5 things you can do ...

1 tell a teacher

2 slap that B****

3 talk to her

4 start a roomer about her

5 insult her in German or any other language