What can i do??my parents are sooooooo annoying

Question

im 15 years old and my parents are always bugging me!! any help on how to make this all stop!!

my mom is always pissing me off!! theres never one week where me and her get into a fight!! she's always saying that im lazy and i never do anything!! meanwhile, she never has to tell me to clean my room, i do my own laundry and i coook for myslef and brother sometimes when im not there!! yet she always says im lazy!!! she never acknowledges my work!! i hate that

and my dad hes all about studying!! and i hate that!! everytime he comes home his 1st question is did you study today!! and no matter how good i do in skewl its never good enough for him!! like last year i was on gold honor roll from basically the whole year!! this year( i just started high school) and i got an 87 and 82 on my regents he doesnt think that thats good enough!!!last year when we were choosing high schools for me i wanted to go somewhere closer to home and its a fairly good school ( i got in to that) but he wanted me to go to the top school and when i didnt get in he made this whole big deal!! and when i asked him for a cell phone he goes if you got into that school i would have gottten you everything you wanted!! that got me soo pissed off!!

nothing i ever do is good enough for him!!and hes always comparing me to cousins or other people that we know or that he sees in the news!! that gets me soo angry

Answer 1

While you're not an adult, it might be best to deal with this in an adult manner.  Sit down with them.  Let your mother know that what she does is offending you, and you wish that you had a better relationship with her.  Let your father know that what he does has an equally bad effect.  Ask him to stop comparing you to other people- you're not them, you're you, and their daughter.  Tell him that whatever you do never seems good enough for him.  Talk to them.  Express your feelings!

Answer 2

Thats what parents do. Im 30 and my mom still bothers me like theres no tomorrow. And Im a mother myself...another few years and you can go away to college and enter the real world, but trust me when those days come you'll wish you were back living rent free in your parents home. Its stinks...trust me I struggle every day as a single mother and would kill to live rent free in their house again...but life is what it is. Take it with a grain of salt right now and know someday it will all be different.

Answer 3

That's their job.  Just keep doing what you're doing.  Soon you'll be all grown up and you will have your own place.

Answer 4

I say ignore them and try to focus on yourself instead of them.

Answer 5

They just want to set the limits high.They know you can do it.They have full faith in you.Work hard now and party hard later,else,keep slogging throughout your life.Which would you prefer?

Answer 6

Annoying or not they are still your parents and they only want the best for you.