What can i give my boyfriend that resembles a promise ring?

Question

the only problem is that he doesn't wear rings or any jewelry for that matter. does anyone have any ideas on what i could give him that symbolizes the same meaning as a promise ring? thanks so much :D and how i could give it to him would be helpful too.

Answer 1

Cufflinks?

Answer 2

I have to admit I find the whole promise ring trend to be pointless.  It's supposed to mean that the you promise that you and your partner will be together forever, or you promise one day you'll ask your partner to marry you.  As for the first meaning, there is no forever.  All things have an end, including relationships.  Ideally, it's till death do us part.  But death is an end.  It's not forever.  As for the second meaning, I don't want someone to promise they'll one day ask me to marry them.  If my partner wants to marry me, he'll ask.  If he doesn't, he won't.  I don't want false promises.

For the above, I recommend you forgo the promise ring substitute for your boyfriend.  Instead, just do your best to show you care for your boyfriend every day.  Let him know on a regular basis that you appreciate him, even when things are less than perfect.  If you have to fight, fight fairly.  No name calling, no bringing up old issues.  Remember that you care for this person and that doesn't stop when you're fighting.  This is far more important in a relationship than anything resembling a promise ring.

Answer 3

A bl*wjob

Answer 4

No jewelry at all, no chains or an earring?  Would he wear something like a chain if you got him on?

You could write him a poem and have it printed on nice paper and framed

write a song and sing it for him if you can sing well

make a scrap book of photos of the both of you