What can i say to her to get her to talk?

Question

i like this girl back home (im in college). she wants to be good friends. i guess im ok with that for now butt its hard tryin to get over her. i try to talk to her as much as i can but she keeps giving me like 1 word answers that are hard to respond to. its really hard to keep a conversation going which really hurts me but she has no idea. should i say something to her about maybe just talking to me? if so what would i say that wouldnt make her angry? im very confused and could use some help

Answer 1

Just try and ask her questions that will force a long-ish response out of her.  If he responds with short answers just keep asking more questions about what she was talking about.  Just make sure you're talking about a subject she can elaborate her responses on!

Answer 2

try talking to her more and it sounds to me like you're putting to much attention her...try showing less interest in her and when you guys talk...

talk to her like if she's just a friend don't talk to her all cute and nice..

just send her the message that you can be there but at the same time you don't have to stay!

believe me girls like it when a guy doesn't pay to much attention...

when a guy puts too much attention on a girl it just becomes boring i don't like it when a guy is at my feet i like it when he ignores me a bit..i like to fight for what i want and i know how you feel!

i bet you just want to grab her and hug her and tell her how much see means to you and your just hoping that she'll say the same and kiss you but sadly life just doesn't work as easily...

hopefully i help you in some way..

and thanks for you opinion w/ my problem

:)

Answer 3

Ease your way into her. Try doing stuff she like. And when it's her birthday, get her something she's been dying for. Then she'd probably realize how much you care about her, and might consider being with you.