What can i say to my friends to make them feel better about their dark skin color?

Question

my friends are jealous of white women. although they are stunning and gorgeous, especially with their olive skin and dark almond eyes and black hair, they complain about how men, regardless of their race, stare at white women, pretty or ugly, and never notice them. i notice this too. when a white woman steps into a room or passes guys as she walks by, all men always turn their heads at her or stare at her hair without seeing her face. but when a darker girl does the same thing, men (except most of black guys) act like they don't exist. my friends and i went online and tried to find whether guys find darker skin attractive. i couldn't believe how racist and ignorant men (not all of them, though) are. at least 50% of guys, white and black, found white women "most attractive race on the planet." many of them said that they look "exclusively" at white women. this made my friends feel much worse. at the same time, we weren't surprised because we see this all the times.

Answer 1

It's not a case of racism..beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  I'm white and I prefer lighter skinned Indian women and asian as well as white, but that doesn't mean that they're aren't guys who prefer darker skinned women.  Whatever race you desire should be a deciding factor in where you choose to go out to socialize.

Answer 2

They won't ever have to wear that much makeup creamy blended skin already

Answer 3

men are idiots they just stare for sport

Answer 4

that's so not true :o

i know a very gorgeous puerto rican girl, mexican girl, and black girl.

and they are stunning.

all races are beautiful.

Answer 5

Beyonce turns ALL heads, so does Alicia Keys, Halle Berry, Hudson and many other gorgeous black women. It's not about black white or orange, it's about being beautiful and s**y.

But what really matters is what's inside.

Answer 6

well it all depends on where you live the the races that are dominant in your area. but i think people of color whether it be black, hispanic, or asian are beautiful because of the varieties in their looks. white women are pretty too, but i think the looks in people of color are vastly diverse. even in my own family. i have people in my family that are white africans and lebanese-africans with light skin and curly soft hair and i have peope that are very,very dark. and then everyone else in my family that just comes in between. then we have chinky eyeballs to big almond shapes. small to full lips. pointed to round noses. beautifull high cheek bones. just very diverse. and i believe that individually, everyone's look is interestingly beautiful and if you're used to one type of look for beauty, then you dont know beauty at all.

&& as far as that whole bullshit called preference goes lol

sometimes i truly believe society contributes to what we prefer. yeah i have a preference, but i believe its bs. lol

people love living behind a facade or lies.