What can make you fall in love?

Question

how and why you fall in love with a person that you never though that you will or to fall in love with the pictures of the person on the internet even though you've never met them in person.

Answer 1

I fell in love with my s/o because I had an incredible, unwavering sense of care for him. I fell for his personality, his charm, and his wit instantly. I knew I wanted to be there for him. I knew I wanted to protect him and I knew I wanted him to find security and love in me. I truly, deeply cared for his well-being.

And yes, we met online. We were friends for around 4.5 years and met in person in January of 2007. We both moved out of state together and have been living together for over a year.  

Answer 2

I think people fall in love for different reasons.  Sometimes we meet people who we need in our lives at that particular time. They offer us the love, support, companionship, motivation, and inspiration to be a better person.  

You hear of this love at first sight theory, and I am sure it happens that way for people.  It has never happened like that for me.  But I am a woman of substance, and I seek truth and to know the person on the inside versus the outer shell.  

I have been very interested in that complete crazy attraction to someone, and when it has happened, it ended up that there was nothing of substance on the inside.  And I have also dated guys who were not the most handsome, and in some sense... I ended up being crazy about them because of the way they made me feel.  They wanted to spend quality time with me. They went out of their way to do things they know I would like.  They were charming in their own way, and I wanted nothing more than to spend time with them.  

So, love works in mysterious ways.  We don't always fall in love with the guy you think you will, and in some cases it won't last if it is not a genuine love.  I think we all can agree that we cannot help who we fall in love with.  But I think if more people approached love in the sense of making that other person feel like they are the center of their universe, then we would have more happily married couples.  

So, to sum this all up... I think I could fall in love with almost anyone.  It really has little to do with what the person looks like, and more to do with how they make me feel as a woman, in their presence.  Sometimes, I would love to give this tip to a new guy I am dating... but I realized it is not my duty to tell the guy. He has to take on the challenge and figure things out himself. If he doesn't or makes no effort, then it was never going to work out anyway.  Plus, many guys really do not want a woman who puts everything out in front of them. Guys like to work for something.  

Thanks for reading!

Answer 3

when you know that you click with the person and they have the right personality and when you see them you are happy and your feet was above the ground because they lifted you up higher.

Answer 4

Desperate, lonely or self-induced infatuation... that is not love.  Just the figment of one's imagination.

Answer 5

  My  lonley..ness!!!

Answer 6

I can fall in love if the person is fulfilling my needs and I can make them happy too. You never know how you will meet your mate. God knows but we should try to be out there where we can meet people if we want to find a mate . If we are home we cannot meet them unless it is online. some people condemn singles for wanting a mate but it is only natural for a single to desire a mate.

Answer 7

i'll tell you bout why i think ppl fall in love with actors... in my case its usually the "character" in the movie i fall in love with but since that actor played that character...i automatically start liking him.

with my friends, its their looks...you usually attach yourself to the things that please your eyes. something you like looking at.

(my theory ;) )