What can u do to make anal s*x less painful?

Question

don't care 2 hear opinions about the morality of it just well thought suggestions 2 ease pain

Answer 1

Why do it at all ? If it's painful for you - then you are probably not the one that wants it.  If it's for him - he is setting himself up for prostate problems down the road unless he uses a condom. If he uses a condom - it's not as pleasurable as vaginal without a condom.  Why does he want to do it ? Is he a closet homosexual or is he buying into the hype from porno ? Or does he like seeing a woman in pain and being dominated ? I understand trying it once out of curiosity but after that - I don't understand it.  So, want to make it less painful ? Don't do it. That's painless.  Get a new boyfriend - one that doesn't get his sexual preferences dictated by porno.

Answer 2

Use a lot of lube, take your time, and most importantly RELAX.  It helps to practice.

Answer 3

There are instructional videos you can buy or download that walk you through the entire process.

Answer 4

any type of lubricant will help

yeah vaseline is a good one

Answer 5

you should push out upon entry...that's what actually relaxes the b******e.

Answer 6

It doesn't have to at all. The front side naturally lubricates, so once you get going its easy. The back you need to lubricate yourself. You just have to go very slowly an use lots of lube. You can't just force it into the front either without getting her in the mood first and the back door needs to be coaxed into loosening up as well. You can start small (pinkie size) and keep pressing appropriately larger things to the area until it gradually loosens up. Pushing out while he's pushing in helps.  Do NOT continue if there is ANY pain, Its not worth it - It never has to hurt. Enjoy.

Answer 7

you shouldn't do it if its TOO painful.  s*x is suppose to be fun and feel good.  At least that is my motto.

Answer 8

Pure Romance makes a lubricant called "Booty Eaze" that my friend swears by. I've never tried it personally because I'm not into that sort of thing, but she says it kind of numbs you up a little so it doesn't hurt so bad.

Answer 9

Well first off don't start with a p***s...  A few smaller d****s will help you work your way up in comfortable style.  Remaining calm and relaxed it key as well as plenty of lube.  

Answer 10

I can't understand why you allow someone to sexually abuse you in that manner, but whatever...

NEVER EVER use Vasoline--it is oil based and sits inside you and attracts bacteria causing infections in your a**s and intestinal tract.

Use the intimate K&Y Jelly because it is water based and has a numbing property to ease the pain for you and increase pleasure for both(?) of you.  You can purchase this product at your local pharmacy.

Answer 11

That's simple; don't have it!

I am sorry, but I believe that o*****e is a one way valve!

Answer 12

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Answer 13

vaseline

Answer 14

okay well when me and my bf did it we used

A condom (Hygienic lol and its lubricated)

LOTS of lube (super lots)

And if your still very uncomfortable try laying on your side with your partner behind you.

Make him go reeeally slowly and to only go deeper when you feel comfortable with it.

And let him finger you and play with you while he does it. Takes your mind off the pain abit.

Hope it helps : )