What causes having a fear of commitment?

Question

I think I have it since everytime a guy wants to go out with me I drive him away by being unattainable on purpose and then I blame him for our lack of a relationship saying he didn't want to try hard enough so he didn't really like me after all.

Answer 1

5 words: Trust issues from past experiences.

Answer 2

Maybe it's your fear of being heartbroken.

I watch a lot a shows and that seems to be the root of these problems. Maybe go to a shrink or therapist for this fear and let them help you overcome it.

Answer 3

the more you become committed the more you'll get hurt if you break up. that is also the main reason why boys dont get hurt too much in the end because they are not committed as girls do. he is just your boyfriend and having commitment is needed but should not over handled or make your commitment not really committed. but if you are really desperate to be commited to him, this will help you: http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-Fear-of-...

good luck and have a hard think about your decision. : )