What causes jealousy between me and my boyfriend?

Question

Anytime My boyfriend mentions that a girl has a s**y body or nice big b***s my self esteem goes down and i get jealous of them, because well im only a big A cup. AND If i say I think a guy is cute or has a nice body he gets all jealous.. What gives? We love eachother, thats all that should matter right?

Answer 1

even though the love might be there.....maybe  both of you guys have insecurities....u both need to reaasure each other ALOT. You should give each other compliments about what u both like about each other(physical and non-physical),or  stop admiring other people when your significant other is around,atleast for now, until the trust factor is built way way way up.Sometimes jealousy is a good thing,because it makes the other person know u are really into them,and it might help to keep u on your toes where the relationship is concerned,but sometimes it can get way out of control,if its not quelled very soon and properly.

Answer 2

its only natural. jealousy is a part of human nature. u get jealous because even though u know in your heart he loves you, you still want to be the only one he is attracted to or thinks of in that way