What could I do to turn my hubby on & give me pleasure at the same time?

Question

I love my husband so much!!!! He means every thing to me!! But when we are "having our time" he is normally the one doing most of the work! What "move" or "position" can I do to spice things up? So I can do something for him! Thanx for the help and please no rude comments!!!

Answer 1

Well... other than 69 each other, you could wear something s**y and totally unexpected then go down on him at dinner time. Be spontaneous!

Answer 2

If you're comfortable with the idea, watch some p**n together :)

Answer 3

You could dress up in different characters for him, then he could take Polaroids and then you can let him have private time just for him w/ your photos

Believe me your will be doing a lot of work getting all cute in those outfits and heels posing for those ultimate intimate shots  

Answer 4

Here's a list of possibles:

1 Pay attention to his nipples - a little tongue works best

2 Spend some time on your knees in front of him.  This submissive position can be very much a turn on

3 while doing #2, Work the underside of his favorite body part gently with the flat of your tongue ( not the tip of your tongue, it can be too hard at times)

4 Work on your ability to swallow the sword.  HIs eyes will probably roll-back in his head if you can pull this one off.  Practice on a carrot to lose the Gag reflex.

5 Give him feedback ( gently and encouragingly) when he does something you like

I could recommend some others but they get a little to close to fetishes.

Good Luck

Answer 5

get a black light in your bedroom, do a strip show that ends with you pouring milk on yourself...i think he'll like that one

Answer 6

go to cosmopolitan.com the magazine has some great positions.

Answer 7

get on top  

Answer 8

Wow, nothing seems to be coming around, ideawise, naturally? I sure am glad I have my beautiful, delicious wife, (hint, hint) she knows exactly what I like.  

Answer 9

Give him a FULL body massage

Answer 10

Try this - and I am being serious -

Blindfold him and have him put ear plugs in his ears. With sight and sound cut off, he will focus more intensely on touch. Then you get on top and do all the "work". Before he puts the earplugs in, ask him to agree to do all the talking - to let you know what he is enjoying and how much.

When you are on top, you can control the speed and rhythm. Pay attention to the "up" motion - go harder "down" but slower "up" and pull your hips towards his chest on the "up and towards his feet on the "down" motion.

In this position, you can also kiss him and use your hands and b*****s to delight him.

Be creative. I promise you will learn a lot about pleasing him and enjoy every second of it!

Answer 11

First get yourself a naughty nightie, something crotchless with a peek-a-boo bar.  Then get yourself a toy, and an adult video.  Just doing the shopping should loosen you up a little, then when he a little whipped cream in the right places may do the trick.  Play with the whole idea of what you may want to do for him, get a little wild.

Answer 12

Climb on top, facing away from him and ride, ride, ride. It's called the 'Reverse Cowgirl'.

Answer 13

Easy. 69.