What could be the reason?

Question

I'm just wondering what you think/

Every time my partner is on the computer it runs fine. When I get on it things go wrong. I press the right buttons so I don't do anything wrong.

Also every time I make a new friend they are normally bad people.

Also things always break down. I would like to think I'm being paranoid.

I have heard people have auras. Could that be the reason?

Answer 1

hey dont worry abot it i have had the same thing all my life except not the same situation alwas so called UNLUCKY and your right people do say you have an aura as of me most of the time im always happy so dont get paranoid or anything i jus put it down to life in general whats for you will not go by you  think about it where will the worry get you? honestly give it a go just think of life as a challenge  thats what i do and itseems to work so goodluck and god bless

Answer 2

All I can say right now is Welcome to the Club !!! LOL You're not the ONLY one this happens to!!!

Answer 3

Honestly, try thinking more positively. You get what you put out. Give out love and light and get it in return. If you tend to be very negative and say complain a lot, that's what you're going to attract. Does that make sense?? I'm not trying to sound rude, though it's coming out that way. Try it as an experiment. Try being really sweet and loving and smile at everybody you see and say "hello" like you really mean it. Be "sunny" and see what you get in return. When I'm FEELING in a bad mood, I attract people in bad moods. when I'm feeling loving and nuturing and compassionate, my world gets easier. You're reacting to the world around you in a way you don't even realize, but it's a vibe you're putting out.

that's all just an example, BTW...

Hmmm...BUT...after writing all of that I feel the need to ask you if you tend to be a doormat? In which case... that would be the reason you're attracting these bad people. Do they tend to take advantage of your niceness?? Maybe you should be a bit more careful about who you let into your space, careful about the people you trust.

mmm. sorry, normally I'd have more insight, but I tire easily these days. Ugh. I wish I could pin it down for you.

Also, does the computer overwhelm you a bit? Do you feel just slightly incompetent on it? I get the feeling he's just more at ease with the computer than you are and that this has something to do with it. I also feel the need to tell you, "relax!"

Aura... everybody has one, it's not like a disease you catch or anything, it's just an energy feild around the body. Yeah, sometimes you have holes in the aura which can indicate sickness or something wrong with you, but it has nothing to do with the computer breaking down or the type of people you attract.

Answer 4

well have your told your partner about it, that is interesting.

Answer 5

Do you know anything about "Karma"? (Basic " in-a-nut-shell explanation)

The deal we get in this life we choose, to learn the lesions we need to achieve enlightenment. (to get to Seventh Heaven)

For example. I used to be anal about time keeping. And I mean to the point of getting to places early so as not to be late, by hours sometimes....(a complete waste of the very thing I was frustrated about...wasting time!). As my obsession got worse my faith-full watch started to loose/gain time. I bought 7 watches in one year because I couldn't keep one that kept the right time. over a period of two years I got so paranoid about being late for things that I would ask strangers what the time was to check my watch....

I now know that I will get to where ever, at the right time because the time I get there will be the right time to be there...As for the bad people, your lesion there is perhaps to help them become good people, and the computer use the phone or write a letter or read a book!!! Hope it helps.

Answer 6

"Every time my partner is on the computer it runs fine. When I get on it things go wrong. I press the right buttons so I don't do anything wrong."

Assuming the computer isn't broken for everyone, if you pressed all the right buttons then nothing would go wrong.  So either you are not operating it correctly or you do not know how to operate it correctly.

"Also every time I make a new friend they are normally bad people."

Once again, this appears to be an issue of awareness.  Perhaps you open up too readily with people you meet or you just aren't exercising an adequate degree of caution.  Don't be too hard on yourself here.  We have all met apparently good people who turn out to be anything but.  If everyone you meet is a bad person then you have evaluate your habits.  You should avoid situations or places where bad people congregate.

"I have heard people have auras."

When you start using imaginary things like auras to explain away misfortune then you may as well just give up.  Relying on magical explanations indicates a complete lack of intellectual independence and integrity.

Answer 7

If people have auras, no one has ever been able to verify it - people claim they can see them, but they all claim different colors, and apparently they disappear during tests of that claim.  Funny, huh?  Anyway, no, you just have bad luck on the computer.  Maybe you seem too trusting online and attract predators as a result.  Sounds like perfectly normal paranoia to me.  :)

Answer 8

It sounds like to me you have a lot of negativity around you. I would cleanse myself and clear your chakras and cleansing  your aura would help too.

Answer 9

i have things like this too with my computer and certain contacts

auras don't have anything to do with this they are a kind of spiritual identity

Answer 10

Maybe you're incompetent with computers, a  bad judge of character, and have poor maintenance skills with your stuff.

Or maybe that paranormal thingy....

Answer 11

i think you don't know how to use a computer, you're a terrible judge of character and you shouldn't be allowed near anything mechanical.

people don't have auras.

you are paranoid.

hope this helps :)

Answer 12

Stick with the paranoia trail of thought and put it down to good old fashioned bad luck.

Answer 13

every living thing has an aura. the computer.... do you also affect other electricals? tv receptions (more than others) watches, video machines, light bulbs etc? you have strong energy. same here. the people... do you seek out those who you help? do they end up taking from you and using you?? or are they just bad?? this is a bad habit... you are obviously on the path, so chances are you feel in some way you help these bad people... you must get throught his... when you are a helper, the easiest ones to seek out is bad ones, so you can help and change them. but thsi does no one any good. shift your frequency and find deserving people of your positive nature. then everyone winds, and you arent left used abused and drained. about the computer... wera closed end metal bracelets.. its stope your energy affecting... and i also call archangel raphael for help because it happens with me all the time... and suddenly, it fixes itself :)

Answer 14

Nah its just really bad luck.

Answer 15

These things are not occurring because of anything paranormal but rather psychological. You expect these things to occur and because you expect them to occur they will. Being happy and outgoing is not the same as having a positive outlook on life.

Answer 16

a large part of this is could be due to aura

(Aura is energy your body realises unconsciously and effects the way people see you) ...

...have you ever seen someone you dont know.. either in public on the the telly and you instantly just feel dislike for them.. they have done nothing to you but you just really dislike them for no good reason except their there..

...OR have you ever just felt an overwhelming like for someone (not fancy) but you feel you have an instant attachment to them and you put it down to you just knowing them in a different life..

..well this is aura.. no one knows they are doing it, or even what type of aura they are letting out

but this is why certain types of people (bad people in your case) are attaching themselves to you

I'm sure with a simple change in your life you can avoid the bad energy and meet nice people instead of your usual.. maybe a new out look to life, a personal goal to achieve.. this will change the way you see yourself and the world and your aura will change with it.

or you can change your job, hairstyle... give it ago for a few months and see what happens

Answer 17

everybody has an aura, it's your own electricity that affects electrical equipement. You can have a picture of your aura taken. there are exhibitions where you can have this done, a good one is the mind body a soul ehibition which they have in several different places in the UK try http://www.mbsevents.co.uk