What could i tell my cousin?

Question

well...i told my cousin about my family problems and now she just feels bad for me.... and shes really worried...what should i tell her iv all ready tried to tell her I'm fine and I'm happy(I'm not though i think she know I'm that it was a lie) but i just dont know what to tell her becouse now in a way i feel eavan worse becouse now she feels bad for me thats not what i wanted i wanted her to give me some edvise or just lisen but instead all she does is feel bad and trys to be nice to me and tells me that im not alon...i know its wrong but i read her journal and she thinks that i am try to kill myself...well sometimes i feel like that but i dont try really so what should i tell her?

Answer 1

Hi there,

That is a hard question. Are closer to your mom or your dad? I would take the 1 that I'm closer to and talk to them about it. I don't know how old you are but have you every try to ask them if you could have some? If you got high with them than talk to about your feelings. Or you can do what I did. I would find it and flash it away. Then they will come and talk to you that they are missing their pot. They will be mad cuz that pot cost alot of money. Good luck to you my friend!!

Answer 2

Maybe you could try telling her that you really appreciate her  being there to listen to you and that it really helps you that she does that. Keep telling her about the plans you have for the future - what you want to do for a job, maybe places you want to travel to etc, things you can do together.  If you are feeling that low that you feel like killing yourself seriously, maybe it would be a good idea to talk to a counsellor or anonymous kids or general help line or something.  Good luck.