What could this dream mean?

Question

Me and my husband haven't had the perfect marriage. He said he has been having this recurrent dream for the past month and a half. He usually does not remember his dreams. He has dreamed that we got a divorce and that he met someone else. We have been fighting for about a month and a half. Last week I discovered that he was considering a divorce. We have both decided this is not what we want. We are trying to work out our marriage. Yesterday he told me of this dream and he kept trying to figure out what it meant. If anyone can shed some light on this please do we are both curious now as to what it could mean. Especially considering that he has only remembered this recurrent dream and one other since we have been together in the past 6 years.

Answer 1

this dream could be trying to show him how life would be without u. u are meant for eachother....

Answer 2

Your husband may be taking this dream too literally.  

To dream that you are getting a divorce, indicates that you need to differentiate between things in your life and prioritize them. Alternatively, it may mean that you have a fear of separation. Also you may be not be satisfied with your present relationship.  Divorce dreams may reflect real-life events and the stress that it brings. You may be wondering if you have made a mistake in some situation or decision.  Divorce dreams suggest a transitional phase or a time to change your old habits, none of which suggest a physical divorce.

Recurring dreams are often triggered by a certain life situation or a problem that keeps coming back again and again.  It usually points to a personal weakness, fear, or your inability to cope with something in your life - past or present.

The repetitive patterns in your dream can reveal some of the most valuable information on yourself. It may point to a conflict, situation or matter in your waking life that remains unresolved or unsettled.  Or some urgent underlying message in your unconscious is demanding to be understood.

I think it's obvious what needs to happen here; you need to see a marriage councilor or attend Communication Therapy.  I would reccomend the latter as it would help you both understand each other better and make your relationship all that much stronger.

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Answer 3

it may just have happened because he was thinking about a divorce. have you ever done something during the day and then you're dream includes it in another scenario. because this is such a strong emotion and something that needed alot of thought and consideration it would reoccur. Evenif he has decided against divorce it will be a while before his mind replaces the consideration with aanother