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What d'you think of this situation? I'm stuck.?

by Guest60194  |  earlier

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I went out with a guy (who happens to be my best mate as well) for three months several months ago, broke up due to my problems at home. We've been on and off ever since, but a few weeks ago he asked out another girl, who happens to be one of my closest friends. She said no, and he told me he was "relieved, because he'd changed his mind as he liked someone else".

Which turned out to be me.

I was pretty gutted when he asked her out because he'd been leading me on for so long and I thought we had another chance, so I just told myself to give up. Now he's turning round and telling me he's in love with me, and seeing as this has happened before when a girl dumped him, I feel like a right rebound.

Since this happened I've been on holiday for two weeks, and I thought that'd let me cool off but I've just got angrier and angrier!

And now I'm really pissed off, and don't want to talk to him because he just sends things all over the place.

I also just found out I'm moving into my mum's boyfriend's place, which is all new to me, which is stirring things up in my life even more.

I don't know what to do.

Any ideas? Would much appreciate hearing your opinion!

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  1. Well I'm partly speaking for experience here.

    For a while now I've also had strong feelings for my best friend, but she doesnt seem to feel the same way, but I can live with that.

    Anyway I also like another girl who I am currently trying to ask out, but what I'm trying to say is just because he tried to ask out this other girl, does not mean he had no feelings for you at the time. I know lol I'm in the same situation as him.

    The reason I haven't asked out my best friend is because I wouldn't want to jeopradize our friendship despite me reaaaaally liking her. Perhaps he felt similiarly to this when he asked out this other girl, and he may have seen sense afterwrads that he liked you more.

    Don't be angry with him, just see it from his point of view he may be more confused than you are! Infact your lucky that he is so open with his feelings cos it is a big problem with us males!

    Good luck and don't be too hard on him :)


  2. hiii

    erm...  talk too him and ask how he realy feels bab

    dnt get angry over iit

    x

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