What did my ex mean by this?

Question

so it was my Bday 2 days ago, and i got a text from my ex saying "Happy Birthday. Have a great day"..what could be her inentions.? could she still have feelings?

Answer 1

it was a birthday text cause it was *ding ding* your birthday.

just ask if you really want to know.

Answer 2

she didnt mean anything! this a 'happy birthday' shes giving you. not a passionate 'i love you'. she just remembered you on your day. dont start stressing out.  

Answer 3

Just accept it for what it was...a friendly message.  It didn't say she loved you or that she wished she was there celebrating it with you.  It was just a friend type message and nothing else.

Answer 4

she definitely is still thinking about you and caring about you. but depending on how the relationship was between the two of you, she may not want to be with you again.

Answer 5

i think she was just being nice....if you want to pursue this......you should text her to say thanks and how r u?  if she responds then maybe she miss u.....then you should do lunch...but not dinner...because lunch is more casual

Answer 6

LoL.. I think it means she remembered your birthday and wanted to wish you a happy birthday...

Anything more than that I honestly think your reading WAY TOO FAR into it.. I don't think it meant anything more than "happy birthday"

Answer 7

NO! i send all me ex's happy birthday, happy 4th of july, happy Christmas, etc. texts.  especially if they are in my phone book. AND i definatly don't have feelings for them

Answer 8

Her intentions where letting you know she remembered your day!  Have no idea if she still has feelings, at least the feelings you may be hopeing for.

Why not ask her?

Answer 9

It just means happy birthday and that she cares unless you have some sort of cereal (i really mean cereal not serial) murderer ex with a crazed mind.

Answer 10

Would it terrible to think she still cares for you as a human being?  She wished you a happy birthday.  She didn't ask to get back together...

Answer 11

whoa.  chill out.  she remembered your birthday and was wishing you a happy birthday.  no intentions.  send her a text message back saying thanks for the wishes.  that's it.  you don't need to engage in a conversation.

Answer 12

seriously? you think thats what she meant? last time i checked happy birthday meant happy birthday not i wanna be with you please come back to me...my ex did that to me and it was nice that he remembered

Answer 13

u little idiot she just sent u a happy birthday thats does not mean she stills loves u have a little brain c'mon be more mature maybe u have feelings and is hiding it

Answer 14

well i guess it depends on when you broke up.. if it was like 6 months ago and she got a myspace message about your bday its probably nothing.. but if it was like a day to 1 month or so ago then i would say definately a yes.. but dont go back out with her if she slept with anybody else cause thats bullshit.. she just using you then

Answer 15

It could be.. she could have feelings for you or maybe she just wanted to wish you a happy birthday. But if you guys broke up harshly then maybe she still has feelings for you. But if you guys parted then that would probably mean that she just wanted to wish you happy birthday.

Answer 16

lol it means shes wishing you a happy birthday and she wants you to have a great day, thats all if it would have said i wish i could spend the day with you or i miss you or something maybe that would have had some feeling but by this text i dont think she had any feeling for you other than just being friends...

Answer 17

She probably wants to move on from the conflict between you two in try being friends.... otherwise, if she continues to do strange things like get you gifts and such she probably does want to get back together.  

Answer 18

Sorry, I'm still friendly with my ex's and i wish them a happy birthday, only because I want them to have a happy birthday. Nothing else is meant by it other than just that!

Answer 19

I don't think this means she has feelings she just wanted to let you know she was thinking of you and wanted to say happy birthday.

Answer 20

I called my ex on his first birthday after we broke up.

All I wanted to do was show him I remembered his day, and that even though I didn't have the feelings I used to, he was still someone that was important in my life.

No, I didn't have feelings... She probably doesn't have feelings either.

However, if you're interested, give her a call... she'll steer you in the right direction really quick.

Answer 21

Not necessarily. My current "whatever" got a text from his ex on his birthday but its only because they are still friends, they don't talk everyday mind you but they also don't bash each other. If you guys didn't end it on bad terms she may just be saying it to be nice or to avoid you throwing in her face that she may have forgotten. You can reply with a thank you or nothing at all just depends on how your relationship is now.

Answer 22

seems to me like your the one still liking her. alls he said was happy birthday trying to be  freindly i assume..and your over thinking it in my opinion. she is your ex and just remembers your bday and wanted to let you know happy bday.

Answer 23

If you never hear from this person maybe they are wanting to talk to you again, if you hear from them everyday then they were just being nice and remembering your bday.

Answer 24

It could mean she remembered and wanted to wish you a happy birthday and it could also mean that she cares.  It's so hard to read emails and texts. There is no expressions so people tend to over analyze the meaning behind it.

Answer 25

What are Yours?  If you do nothing at all it will remain  a nice gesture, Just thinking of you and no ill will.  or  Could be an attempt to open a line of communication.  Either way, The ball is in your court, You decide

Answer 26

I think she's just being nice. Maybe she's trying to break some ice and wants you two to be friends again.

Answer 27

my friend uses some cool thing that allows him to set up automatic delivery text messages from his phone.  this way he can send his wishes without having to worry if he forgets.  maybe she has something similar, or has that capability on her phone.

Answer 28

Take it as what she wrote and nothing more. Just good intentions. I would say that to someone I wouldn't know just to make them feel good.

Answer 29

she doesnt hate you.

Answer 30

I think what she meant was for you to have a happy bday and a great day. I don't know the history or how long you two were together but i'm sure she still probably cares. But I wouldn't read into it. if you want to know if she still has feelings for you, why don't you just ask her?

Answer 31

Don't read too much into it.  She just wished you a happy b-day, that's all it is.  Doesn't mean she wants to get back together so just put it out of your mind for your own sake.