What do I do? I feel so trapped and alone?

Question

I hate myself and my life. I can't handle it anymore. I've come to a point where I just don't know who to go to. I'm crying for help on the inside but at the same time I don't want everyone to know.

I don't even feel I can say everything I need to in this question because I can't really disclose all the details.. but basically I can't go to my parents, the school counsellor or my friends. I don't know what the h**l I'm supposed to do. Who can I go to for help?

Answer 1

Since you said you can't tell your parents you wouldn't be able to get any kind of therapy without their consent. If you feel comfortable, email me and I can give you some better advice if I know more about what's going on. Why do you feel you can't go to your parents, friends or school counselor? Are you in some kind of trouble or are you uncomfortable talking to anyone you know?

Answer 2

A person feels lonely only when he/she feels that there is no one to care for them. One cares for the other person when you give joy to others or when you help others out with expectation of getting any rewards in return of your deed. Try being more helpful to people around, try thinking big about changing smallest things that makes others happy. Not many people will care about your unhappiness...others rather seek how can you be helpful to them and make them happy. gud luck dear ! and feel free to contact me when u want by emailing me or adding in chat window

Answer 3

Everyone says to seek counseling, but then you will feel like someone is judging you.  That's why I haven't gone.  Being ashamed of who you are is awful and so painful to live with.  The easy things in life seem so hard and joy seems out of reach.  I sadly don't have a good answer for you, but I wanted you to know that you are not alone.  What keeps me from the suicidal thoughts is to think of how my mother and father would take it if I killed myself.  I would rather live with my pain than inflict some on them.  I keep telling myself that maybe something will give and I'll find a reason to hate myself a little less someday.  And I guess it comes down to the little things we do to keep ourselves in this rut.  I try to remember that whatever I've done, someone else has done far worse and walked proudly down life's road.  It gets me to the next day, and that's a start.  I wish you the best and hope you can pull yourself up from the muck.  Feel free to contact me to discuss anything.  I'm pretty messed up too, so you probably won't shock me!!!

Answer 4

what about the Samaritans they are very good sounds like you need to talk ,get it all out soon. good luck..

Answer 5

God, he created you, loves you and he is the bestest friend you could ever have. You may feel lost, unloved and so alone but he is so amazing and loves everyone in this world. Go to him for help, pray and just seek guidance from any Christian..:)

Answer 6

Web MD has some good online support groups you might want to try.  Talking really does help some.  If things get really bad please go to the emergency room at your local hospital, they will know how to help you.

Answer 7

I know exactly how u feel,coz am going through the same. Would you like to see a counsellor?

It didnt help me much. May be u can write to me.  I will listen. u can remain anonymous.

As Oprah says when you feel trapped help someone like you!

Answer 8

Just pray to God, He's always there for us. Tell Him all your problems and surrender your life to Him. Life is beautiful! Have fun and do some good deeds!

Answer 9

i  recommend friends, like seriously dont talk 2 all of em just 1, tahts best 1 and after a while youll go too the friend more and more and become better friends. im going thru a bad time 2 and i talk too one friend about my problems and its working 4 me and were always with each other so we can talk. u can belevie in god (i dont cuase i think its a load of c**p) or u culd go too a friend.