What do I do? Its driving me insane..?

Question

My "best friend" is getting on my nerves. There's 4 of us, and shes always talking about the other girl to me. All she does is talk about her, or herself. She repeats what she says just to make sure EVERYONE heard so that they can answer her, about herself. Shes so vain, just talks about herself ALL the time. When we are out places she shouts what she says to make sure everyone knows, shes so attention seeking. Never really thinks of other people, whatever she wants goes. She makes it out that shes the most beautiful person on earth, that shes the skinniest and all the boys like her. And she isn't. It really does drive me insane. I don't want to say anything to her because it would just cause an argument but I cant carry on like this. Also if I lose her as a friend, then the other girls is going to be in the middle of it all. I know I sound like such an awful person to do this but its driving us all insane and I'm the only one who has the guts to say something, the only thing that's stopping me is it causing a full blown out argument between our group of friends, not just the other girls as well. What can I do?

Answer 1

you have to tell her , your her friend so its ok , would she like it if someone else told her....no ! So be Strong and tell her that she doesn't have to lie to kick it , you know what i mean, but if she gets mad then what kind of Friend is that

Answer 2

she is your, what, BEST friend? seriously??

you need to search on the definition of the word 'friend', let alone best friend. i HATE people like that.  

Answer 3

next time she keeps repeating stuff say something like we all heard you you dont repeat yourself but try to say it nicely or whenshe is doing something wrond try to show her what she's doing wrong dont just go straight up to her and tell her try to show her!

Answer 4

to guys like us, that girl is known as a "hit it and quit it" chick. guys hate a girl whos attention seeking and is all about "me me me" so dont let that get to you.

sucks for your situation though. ask your other buds if they feel the same way. if they do then you talk to her in front of your friends and say how you feel. if it causes an argument well then make sure your other friends are on your side. if they arent, then maybe you need a new group of friends? sucks i know but theirs always some dumba$$ in the group that ruins it for everyone.

or.. much easier solution is to get headphones, while you listen to them talk to your other buds and ignore that chick.. not really helping the situation but its more to smite her by sort of ignoring her.

or.. get a boyfriend and chill with him alot more then her.. eventually she would get the hint that you arent that fond of her and instead of causing arguments, she'll just stop hanging around you and develope that uncomfortable "hi.. i used to hang out with you but stopped for my boyfriend" situations.. better than how it is now i suppose

goodluck!

Answer 5

you've got to confront her and tell her what you feel. if you do that, it only means that you really care for her and that you're one great and TRUE friend. .trust me! i've experienced a lot of things like that, with my friends too and they all end up just fine. if she can't deal with that then it her problem. you just gotta do what you need to do..

Answer 6

Ok- in your opening sentence- you say this girl is your best friend.

Can't best friends talk about anything? Can't you be open with each other?

I thought that is what best friends do-

If you don't get things out in the open you will never feel better.

You don't want to hurt your friend's feelings- because after all this girl is your BEST friend right?

So just be honest- tell her what she is doing that is bugging you and tell her why it is bugging you.

Either she stops doing it or she doesn't.

If she doesn't -then I think maybe it is time to either find a new best friend or get over it and realize that maybe she is just an attention hog and you are going to have to live with it and love her regardless of it.