What do I do about his psyco ex :) ???

Question

Me and this guy are seeing each other. Were not going out yet but hes gonna ask me soon coz he asked my friend if she thought I would say yeah. I wanna say yeah but his ex girlfriend is giving me hassel over bebo. Why should she stop us from goin out!

HER: Do you go out with Jonny? Dont tell him i asked u

ME: No we're just seein each other at the mo lol ...who r u if you dont mind me askin?

HER: His ex.. Yeah well dont bother stepping foot in Weetfield! (The estate where they live)

Shes basically tellin me not to show my face round where she and him live. I didnt reply and she emailed me again askin when I started seein him. I again didnt reply and she emailed me sayin

"you little fxcking slu*! dont bother coming into Weetfield and tell Jonny hes a fxcking little dude!

THESE EMAILS WERE 2 WEEKS AGO, SHE EMAILED ME YESTERDAY ASKIN IF I WAS STILL SEEIN HIM COZ HE WAS TELLING HER DIFFERENT?

..I asked him about it n he was said he didnt know what I was talkin about.

Answer 1

She might be psycho or she might be still dating him.  I find it rather odd that he is ignoring this.  I'm also wondering what he has been telling her, because according to even you - you said that she said he was telling her differently.

He could be playing the field with both of you.  I agree with the above poster, avoid guys that let girls fight over them.  Get to the bottom of this thru HIM.  I don't think this girl is in the right state of mind to even consider answering your questions without threatening you.

I would be very careful, and just make sure that he's not attempting to have his "cake and eat it too".

Answer 2

wow she needs therapy...talk to ur guy about this..but seriously dont freak out..she'll go away eventually just avoid her....

Answer 3

Uh-oh. ****** alert!! I'm guessing she didn't want to break up and is hurting a lot, but very immature to think she can stop him seeing anyone else, ever! He should defend you on this, if he doesn't then bin him - definitely NOT worth it. If he really likes you, he should go round and tell her to stop. This is actually harrassment and you could tell the police, so don't let it go on or intimidate you. I suggest you step back, tell him no way will you accept anything happening until he sorts this, then it's up to him. Be wary of men who sit back and let women fight over them (most of them!). Send her a polite email asking her not to contact you again or you'll consider this harrassment.

Answer 4

uh oh psycho alert! honey im dealing with this now, just avoid her, make sure he's telling her the truth also, that she knows your not full of c**p (possibly at a time you and he are together have him call her or her call him and have him tell her about you two in front of you) but dont freak out on it. my husbands ex wife is doing it now... fortunately she's scared of me.. but avoid the situation and if it doesnt get better leave! you dont need the stress and bs of their drama

Answer 5

it's simple. Kill the batman

Answer 6

idk,, can you block people on bebo ?  

if you can do that

dont let her ruin your relatioship

its not worth it

if theres something there, then a girl shouldnt get in the way,

she is just jealous ;D

good luck sweety

x

Answer 7

sounds to me like your ex's girlfriend is jealous

i wudnt trust what she said as girls would do anything

to stop someone they love/loved being with someone else!

Answer 8

Just ignore her! She is jealous that you are with her ex. It is you he likes, not her! If he did like her they wouldn't of split up in the first place.

Ignore her, she is not worth ruining your relationship.