What do I do about my Mother In Law?

Question

I love my mother in law dearly, but she lives next door and since we have had our daughter 7 months ago she comes over every morning before work and every night after work. My husband wants to tell her to stop in a not nice way, I don't want to hurt her feelings. This is driving a wall between us and things are already a bit rocky between us , with my sons busy schedule, we each work seprate shift and don't see a whole lot of each other. I don't want us to fall apart and I don't want to hurt her. Help What should I do?

Answer 1

Talk to mom-in-law.  Show her your question here.  Explain that while you love her and appreciate her interest in baby you and daddy need quality family time.  You might be able to come up with an alternative to her coming over every day like send baby with her for a few hours that you can spend smoothing things with your man.