What do I do about my aunt flirting with my brother?

Question

An aunt through marriage sent my brother a birthday card. In it she wrote that she thought he was a totally s**y hottie...can I say gross!!!! I think my brother was totally overwhelmed with disgust that he just wanted to forget the whole thing happened. She's not going to disappear from our lives, so he's gotta deal with this somehow! How can I help him? What should he do if anything?

Answer 1

he needs to tell parents and let them deal with it and so they know what is going on.

Don't try to deal with this without them.

Answer 2

Bring the letter to the police and then let them deal with the rest. Your brother shouldn't have to deal with all this drama and **** with his own family you should bring it to the police so its out of his life!

Answer 3

He has got to tell her, while the card is nice, he is uncomfortable with her speaking to him that way and could she not do it again. IF she continues, tell your parents. Better yet tell them anyway.

Answer 4

well if that was the only thing she did i would try to let it pass. maybe it was a misunderstanding. but if she is always doing that, maybe talk with your mom or dad. do they see that. your brother sounds like he doesnt want to deal with it either so he may need to step up and say that really makes me feel uncomfortable could you please stop, i dont know how old you are but you may need some help from a parent

Answer 5

You can either talk to her in person or write her and tell her you feel she crossed the lines of what is appropriate and what your brother finds inappropriate and offensive. I wouldn't worry so much about endearing yourself to her or saying something that might offend her because apparently she didn't consider his feelings.

Answer 6

tell her he does not appreciate that sort of attention from her