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What do I do about my brother (Help)?

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Hello. This has been bugging me for a long time. I have to wait, at the least, two years for my brother to move out. But until then, I feel like I still have to deal with him.

On my birthday last year, he let me starve until the evening when my parents finally came home. When I was about eleven or twelve, he tried to threaten me and chase me with a knife all because I didn't give him cardboard to microwave some small pizzas. He sometimes even tells me that he wants me to die and tries to exagerate the situation. He also sometimes yells at me, just for having an "attitude" with him. Sometimes, I think that when he sees crying, it reassures him that I am suffering. He has also blurted out, once, that when he sees me, he just wants to kill me.

I am sick and tired of him, I wish the years could go by faster so he could just move out. Whenever he complains about something I do, and then I try to explain it, he usually comes up with an excuse to not hear what I have to say and ignore me, like "I can't hear what you're saying". He's insulted me many times. He has called me stupid, g*y, a failure, a *****, a f*g, slow, ugly, embarrassing, fat, retarded, spoiled, a waste of space, annoying, talentless, and many other numerous things over the years. It has now resulted to him calling me these things on a day-to-day basis. He will say these things even at the smallest reason, such as if I were to get a drink of water from the kitchen. I think he is the main reason to why I have such low self esteem.

If he saw this, he would probably kill me in my sleep. Or at the least, hit/kick me and threaten me.

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  1. Tell Your Parents!

    He Sounds Like A Physco

    Has He Ever Done Anything Nice For You x

    Seriously Though Talk To Your Parents They Will Definately Help You Out

    xoxox


  2. d**n, what you have to do is tell this to your parents, but my guess is that the cowards already know and are defending him am i right? i know b/c i had a brother who used to be a complete pshycho a*****e and he got away with it until he moved out. but if i were you i would not wait, i would want my f*cking dignity and i would want it NOW! tell a teacher you can trust, tell them what is going on and if there is anything that can be done about it. most likely, this guy needs some serious help and he's not getting any. you know your not a loser or any of that other bullsh*t that nutcase told you, just a kid, no one should talk to you that way,  don't give up and live life to the best that your circumstances permit ok? :)

    hon, if you are that afraid, something should be done. i know from personal experience the damaging effects from having to live with people like that. it ruins your self esteem like you said, and sacrificing your childhood is just not worth it. you are getting your dignity one way or another, but you have to fight for it, tell a teacher, or the school counselor, don't worry or beat yourself up for it. there is nothing wrong with YOU, thats exactly how your brother wants you to feel. but there is NOTHING wrong, got that?! NOTHING.

    jsut so u know where i am coming from, i had an older brother who used to call me a loser, an idiot, he would beat me if i ever defied him, he was the law in my house, and i was terrified of him, i know..i know

  3. Get a dog that big and train him to protect you from anything and when he comes close he would or brake.and it he come close bit.

  4. tell ur parents.  all u can do is ignore him and realize that hes just doing it to make himself feel better.  

  5. tell your parents if they dont believe you then just tell them to watch when they think your brother isnt noticing. and shoot get a dog and train it to bite him!!! and girl dont let him get to you...he's prob. telling you these things cuz he's jealous of you and he knows how to push your buttons but dont let him get to you so say he says something lk "your g*y" then tell him "why are you calling me g*y when you are the one who needs to come out the closet!" lol and when he says "your retarted" tell him " you're so retarted and such a low life that you have nothing else better to do in life but pick on me and get a life!" lol and if you feel so threatend by him you need to tell your parents or someone else in your family  

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