What do I do about this situation please help!???

Question

I am a 21 year old female. When I was 15, I slept with a guy I had known and liked my entire life (unprotected which was stupid, i know). Two days later, I had extremely itchy small bumps on my v****a. I went to the doctor and got tested, it was herpes. I have hardly had it since (maybe around 4-5 times) but the thing is, I have a fiance now, we've been together for 8 months and I am way too scared to tell him about it but he needs to know. I love him dearly and would die if I didn't have him anymore. I am so so scared but I want and need him to know. He says that he loves me more than anything and or anyone but I'm not so sure that his feelings will remain the same if I tell him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

did you sleep with him yet?

if you did you just got to tell him straight up and be prepared for the worst

Answer 2

You have to be up front with him right away.....there may be consequences but make sure you tell him your sorry, you didn't tell him right away before u2 slept together, fear of losing him. You might lose him for your dishonesty because he may be mad because you didn't give him the chance to make the decision on whether or not if he wants to be with even though you have a STD. IF you lose him.....better now than later after you marry and children are involved.  Honesty is always the best policy....you did something wrong know there is always consequences for not be truthful. Good luck.

Answer 3

You must tell your fiance asap.  This is not the kind of thing that is best left unsaid and has torn relationships apart.  Many times people think they got it from a cheating partner.

You love him...do what you know is right.  

Good Luck...I know it's not easy.