What do I do??????????? help please?

Question

the other night my friend and I had a sleep over at her house.....this guy texted her and asked her if we wanted to come to a party...and she said yes....she asked me if I wanted to go and seh told me her friend Matt was really nice so I said yes....he came and picked us up and we snuck out of her house.....she didn't tell me until he picked us up that he was 19....I didn't wanna go anymore but my friend kept saying we'd stay a while a leave.. when we got to the party he introduced us to one of his other friends named dylan and he was 19 too....so we all went upstairs to talk and then my friend and Matt went downstairs to get a beer and I was still in there with that guy Dylan....I just sat there,and we were talking...and he said I was cute... then he put his arm around me and asked if I wanted to hook up abnd I said no..I told him I was gonna leave. and he pulled me back and he was like "you're not leaving untilI get something from you" then he started kissing me.. and then he held me down and started to have s*x with me....afterwards I went and told my friend and her friend matt and they confronted the guy and he said it was no big deal..that he wasn't trying to hurt me...my friend told me not to tell her parents or mine cuz we'd get in trouble for sneaking out....what should I do....I know I shouldn't have been there but I didn't mean for that to happen...

btw I'm 14 and my friend is 15

Answer 1

if this is bothering you to any degree where you can't sleep or you're fearful of anything, do tell your mother.  mom's have a way of making you feel better.  that's what they are there for.  for YOU.  now that you know what may happen with this girl friend, think twice before spending an overnight with her.  i think this was a bit selfish of her.  but maybe she's sorry it happened and the 'beer' thing was wrong as well.  but do think hard before going with her again.  by the way,  i'm a mom and i feel really bad for what you went through.  you sound like the kind of daughter i would love to have. and i would want to know everything that happened to my girl.  you decide.