What do I do?.. i feel really c**p about myself?

Question

i was at my bf's earlier and he asked me if id have s*x then, i said no he put his hand on my leg and was asking why not, give him answer "i aint ready & i wanna wait" i thought nothing of him putting his hand on my leg he usualy does it. i was gonna go home & he got to his bedroom door b4 me & said "ur not goin home.." i wanted to go home cause he was been too "touchy". he pinned me against the wall & give me a massive horrible hicky. i tried to push him off but he wouldnt. i told him to back off or id shout *his mom was downstairs*..he dumped me and said "whats point in a relationship when u wont do anything.."

Answer 1

Good for you. I'm happy you told him you'd yell for help. That isn't right. You deserve much better then him. You made such a good decision. Be proud. You go girl!  

Answer 2

You did the right thing. If you're not ready to do anything (not just s*x, anything) then you should say so and stand by your convictions. He had no right to try to force himself on you like that and the only thing you should regret is that you didn't deliver a kick to the area he was clearly thinking from. Stay away from him, you certainly deserve better than a potential rapist.

Answer 3

Good for you. I know many girls who would have just caved under pressure and said yes so they wouldn't lose their boyfriend. Well done for realising you weren't ready and saying no. He sounds like a womanising cheater, so if I were you I'd dump his @ss and get a new boyfriend who will respect your decision to wait.

Answer 4

I'm a guy and I'm here to tell you to just forget him. Most guys are horn dogs but they have to respect how you feel unless he is really insecure and took the fact that you wouldn't do " anything " with him as an insult. Like maybe he wasn't good enough or he was too ugly or something then I wouldn't worry about it.....BUT if a guy really really likes YOU as a Person and not just s*x then he will/should respect the fact that you are being responsible and it should make him won't you more. So, if he's serious about not being with you over that then forget the loser. Remember the world is full of good/nice guys so dump him!.

Answer 5

Stay away from him. he sounds like he would be a wife beater or worse. you deserve a guy that will respect your wishes. you are right to wait. this guy is not good for you and doesnt respect you or he would understand you. dont be down own yourself...you sound like a girl that has her act together. move on with your life without him in it!

Answer 6

That guy was a loser and a jerk who had no right to treat you that way!  Don't feel bad about yourself at all.  No means no, and if you didn't want to get physical with him, he had no right to demand it.  If the only reason he wanted to be with you was the possibility of "getting some," then he's not the kind of person you want to be with anyway.  Stay away from him.  You can find someone better who will treat you with love and respect.

Answer 7

Good riddance I say. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to sexually just to save a relationship. I commend you for pushing him back!

Answer 8

Don't feel c**p about yourself, you don't need idiots like that in your life move on, this guy will probably end up in jail one day and become some guys btich

You should have kicked him in the sack

Answer 9

maybe you feel like c**p cause inside you feel like you let this happen

or you thought that he was a good guy and you really liked him but he turns out to be your worst nightmare.

he's th biggest pig i've ever heard of. i bet he only dated you to get down your pants. he's a man s**t. you should talk with your parents cause he was attempting to rape you. he could go to jail for that or get fined. and if you don't want to have s*x then don't and don't let anyone tell you other wise. it's your body and yours to control. i think your smart, very smart. and if anyone touches your inner thigh you should be worried. cause that's inappropriate. and there are many relationships that take it slow. some people don't have s*x until they're married and if the person your dating doesn't understand that then he's not worth getting upset over. if you feel like c**p maybe talk to a trusted parent or school teacher, older sibling, anyone you can turn to. and you might want to talk to his guys mother. I'm sure if she knew she wouldn't be too pleased. unless everyone in his family is a creep like him. i hope you never have to meet anyone like him again.