What do I do now? Do I just wait?

Question

So I like this boy and just a couple hours ago he told me over text that he liked me too. And then I told him I liked him and then a couple messages later he tells me has a girlfriend. Like WTF? And then he says maybe later if he's single we could go out. Like what do I do? Im crushed, just a couple months ago the same thing happened. I cant do anything, I cant stop crying, it just hurts so much and I dont know what to do. Please help me.

Thank you <3

And btw, the next time I will be seeing him in person is on Tuesday.

Answer 1

you have to decide whether or not you think he&#039;s worth the wait.

if you feel like you have to find out why he said he liked you and then said he had a girl text him, don&#039;t show that you&#039;re sad or mad, just be like: Why did you tell me you liked me if you have a girlfriend?

i think for now while he has a girl you should just hang with your girls and just chill don&#039;t let this take over your life just wait for him at least you know he&#039;s not willing to cheat. Just rent some movies and go out and live you&#039;re life theres plenty more boys out there and tuesday when you see him, make sure you look hot, and flirt with everyone one there including him, try and make him want you even more

Answer 2

Text or call him now and ask him for clarification. Take his words and form a question from them. If he said &quot;I like you but I have a girlfriend&quot; text him &quot;You like me...but you have a girlfriend..?&quot; Once he answers, make it clear that you have no intentions of helping him cheat on his girlfriend and tell him that you will not wait around for him (unless you want to, but really, not a good idea.) I really think you can do this all through texting. I mean, doing it in person would maybe be more effective..but in this day and age, everything is done through technology and this situation isn&#039;t dire enough to wait to talk in person.

Answer 3

Personally, i think he sounds like a bit of a player. I would advice you not to get into a relationship with him. If he can do that to his current girlfriend, i am sure he is more then capable of doing the same thing to you. He is leading you on. He is not worth crying over. He is a liar and a deceiver.

Answer 4

Don&#039;t go after him.  He is not worth the pain.  What if you were his girlfriend, how would you feel if he was saying that to another girl behind your back.  He apparently isn&#039;t committed to his girlfriend and doesn&#039;t care about her or your feelings.  I can tell you if I had a girlfriend and she was talking to another guy and told him she liked him and then said maybe when I&#039;m single we can go out, I would drop her like a brick.  Good luck and I hope you feel better!    

Answer 5

If he has a girlfriend then leave him alone. you got to admit guys are jerks and they like to play with girls emotions. you are still young there is definitely going to be a guy that comes around that wants to follow you everywhere you go and want to be by your side forever. Puppy love. ha ha. Everybody has crushes you just got to learn when to let them go. growing up is hard but we all get through it sooner or later. cheer up.

Answer 6

ask him whats going on

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Answer 7

no no no and no

**** never wait for someone

i waited for this girl for over 4 months and she kept back stabing me

she would allways say she loves me and likes me and ect

dont worrie about him

he likes u so what

there is alot of single guys out there that will like u

so the firsyt thing u should ask any guy u think is cute or a guy trying to flirt with u is are u single

if he is then theres ur chance for a new bf

if hes taken then tell him stright up u only like him as a friend

becareful to,next time u see him dont do anything else then a hug or anything u dont want to cause any drama between you and his gf or other friends

alot of people get away with cheating

ive only cheated once and would have gotton away with it if i wasnt so nice about it and told my gf about it and everything

but ya

Answer 8

thats kind of weird ......~xoxo ally*

Answer 9

This &quot;Angelo&quot; guy who answered your question sounds like an a*****e.

I&#039;ve felt your pain.

You should talk to him, if you can work up the courage. Ask him exactly what he meant by the text message. Don&#039;t listen to Angelo. It&#039;s perfectly normal to get upset by that.

It&#039;s still hard to give him up, even if he is a player.