She's very strong-willed, sensitive, moody, and always has been. I thought it was my parenting, but my 3 year old is easy going, tough, and stable. Anyway, the oldest's separation anx. started increasing after her 3 yr old sis. was born. It comes and goes in intensity. It's so bad she doesn't even want to stay w/her Dad w/out me. I'm w/her most days, she's had a pretty normal, healthy life. I feel bad for her Dad who she fusses about putting her to bed/reading her story/helping her w/homework, or anything. We have to force her to go anywhere w/him or to a friend's house. She I force her? It's hard on me to always have to do it all - especially because she's a tough cookie anyway, plus it's unfair to my youngest if all my time is w/the oldest.
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