I have just been asked to fly home to be a possible bone marrow transplant to my cousin, we share blood on both sides, his dad, is my maternal uncle and his mum is my paternal aunt. I haven't had much info , I didn't even know he was sick! And we aren't close. I'm terrified and I know it sounds selfish but I really don't want to do it! What are the chances of us NOT being a match? And if I do it, what kind of a procedure am I looking at, and how long will it take and how will I feel after. I know this sounds selfish but I have a job I can't afford to lose. and it's been sprung on me so quickly I'm really worried
Can any one give me any kind of help.
Thank you
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