What do I say, to not hurt a nice girl?

Question

This might seem harsh, but its for the best intent. Ive been dating a girl for 3 months now and she really loves me. I'm in college now, and shes still in high school. Its a long distance relationship and i'm not good with those. Plus, if i get drunk and something happens, I don't want to hurt her. How do I say "break" without hurting her?

Answer 1

Just tell her that right now it's not going to work because of the distance. Be honest with her, she deserves that. She'll get over it in time.  Just don't lead her on or drag it out, it'll only hurt her more in the end. Good luck.

Answer 2

i agree with Puzzler, you need to tell her as soon as possible.she will be upset but she will get over it.

if you need the words to say, tell her that you arent sure you want a relationship right now. tell her that a long distance relationship is hard and you dont want to hold her back.

bottom line, be honest and straight with her. everyone deserves the truth.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

be nice, be cool, and just say whatever you want calmly