Ok, my fiance and I have been planning our wedding and talking about our future. We love to spend time with his niece and nephew but we usually spend a few hours with them and that's all. Over the past few days his sister has been forcing him to babysit his niece (he's got a few days off work) and giving him a guilt trip when he says he can't. I'm taking the baby tomorrow but I'm angry at the way his sister has been treating him. My fiance has had to deal with not knowing how to take care of a baby and his sister screaming at him that he isn't doing anything right... He's actually been doing a pretty good job of it, but she keeps telling him he's stupid and will be an awful father. Well, we were talking over dinner and he told me that he isn't sure if he wants children. This is a big blow to me as I want at least one child. I understand how he feels, and I'm not going to leave him or call off the wedding if he decides he doesn't want a child. I just want to let him know that his sister is just being rude and can't be happy for anyone. I also want to let him know that he is a great guy and would be a great father if he would just give parenting a chance. What do I say to him?
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