What do I say to someone whose father just died?

Question

My friend let me know in an e-mail that her father just passed away and I have to no idea what to tell her. I'm really bad about talking about feelings and stuff like that. So could someone help me?

p.s. she only speaks spanish

Answer 1

Hi x*x,

I'm really sorry about your father. I know he meant a lot to you and that you will miss him very much. I'll be thinking of you in the next few days.

~~~~~

Hope that's helpful!

Answer 2

You don't live in the same country...? if you do live not far from each other go and give her a hug. If you live in USA and she in Spain or South America... and not close.. write a heartfelt short letter of condolences to her and her mother..  and ask people at ''languages'' to translate what you write in English into Spanish for you.... and send it. to your friend. These friendly people who speak Spanish gave you an idea what you can write but if you live in the same city.. a hug is ''better than anything '' it needs no words to show what it means, she will understand and do the same to the mother. Offer a hug if you can visit them that says more than any words. x*x

Answer 3

the language of compassion is all u need. when u see her next just wrap ur arms around her & don't let go until she does. let her cry it out. dont just tell her u'll be there be in her sight all the time. she will remember that and need that more than nething.

Answer 4

Tell her: "Sentido pesame". It's a common phrase in spanish to say when some passes away. It means "my condolences".

Answer 5

Well, the easiest and most sincere thing to say is, "I am sorry for your loss."  or "Please accept my sympathies."  

If you knew her dad you might want to share a good memory that you have about him.  

You'll have to translate it into Spanish--my second language is French, so I can't help with that!

Good Luck!

Answer 6

Say this: Condenar! Me alegro de no estoy.

Answer 7

Mi estimado amigo,

Estoy apesadumbrado de oír que su estimado padre ha pasado lejos. Mi corazón sale a usted y a su familia. Déjeme por favor saber si hay cualquier cosa que puedo hacer para usted.

My dear friend,

I am sorry to hear that your dear father has passed away.  My heart goes out to you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you.  

P.S. My family calls me Leti also. :)

Answer 8

Extend your condolences and offer your time, just be there for her.