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Question

the other night my friend and I had a sleep over at her house.....this guy texted her and asked her if we wanted to come to a party...and she said yes....she asked me if I wanted to go and seh told me her friend Matt was really nice so I said yes....he came and picked us up and we snuck out of her house.....she didn't tell me until he picked us up that he was 19....I didn't wanna go anymore but my friend kept saying we'd stay a while a leave.. when we got to the party he introduced us to one of his other friends named dylan and he was 19 too....so we all went upstairs to talk and then my friend and Matt went downstairs to get a beer and I was still in there with that guy Dylan....I just sat there,and we were talking...and he said I was cute... then he put his arm around me and asked if I wanted to hook up abnd I said no..I told him I was gonna leave. and he pulled me back and he was like "you're not leaving untilI get something from you" then he started kissing me.. and then he held me down and started to have s*x with me....afterwards I went and told my friend and her friend matt and they confronted the guy and he said it was no big deal..that he wasn't trying to hurt me...my friend told me not to tell her parents or mine cuz we'd get in trouble for sneaking out....what should I do....I know I shouldn't have been there but I didn't mean for that to happen...

btw I'm 14 and my friend is 15

Answer 1

from the way you described what happened you said no to him and no should have ment no if you realy didnt want him to have s*x with you then he raped you and you should tell your parents and the police about the incident i think your parents will get angry at you for sneaking out but will be more concerned about what happend to you

Answer 2

what he did is called rape. its illegal and emotionally disturbing. if its not bothering you then i guess you can keep quiet, but i recommend you tell somebody about it. your friend dosen&#039;t sound like a very good friend to let you get raped and then tell you to keep it a secret so that she dosen&#039;t get in trouble for sneaking out.

Answer 3

Wooooow girl, thats rape.

I know your scared to tell your parents.

But if you dont your gonna have to live with that image forever.

and regreting the fact you didnt say anything.

At least tell your parents and he can get locked up for that or something.

And you&#039;ll probably get in trouble but that punishment will end in no time as for the guy who did that you, ugh ugh girrl. He deserves to be put away!or charged or something!  I&#039;m sorry that happened to you. I hope your okay :(