What do I talk about with my friends?

Question

Ok, today was the first day of school and when I saw my friends, they all looked so different and we really didn't have much to talk about other than what we did this summer.

Lately I seem to be losing interest in all things I used to love. I really have no idea what to talk about with them anymore, and I need some help.

Any ideas? :(

Answer 1

people on here can't really give you ideas as we don't know you? you just need to say what YOU feel is right - no point in you speaking about random things just cos someone off yahoo answers told you to, lol.

it's hard being away from your friends as cos like you, when you go back, everyone has changed so much in such a short time but it's just what happens, people change and people meet new people which is usually why they change so much - silly really.

try and meet new friends who have the same interests as you now :) then maybe you won't have trouble speaking to them. if you're finding it hard to speak to your friends then you cannot really be that close to them as you should always be able to be yourself around your friends.

Answer 2

you are changing .. it is completely normal....join some clubs/ groups at school..make some new friends too  

Answer 3

Maybe you and your friends are drifting apart because your changing, and that's okay. Maybe a way to make new friends is join a sport,class, or club that your interested in and you will all have common interest. Or I don't know how old you are but you could get a part time job after school and you will all have similar interest there. Otherwise conversations to talk about.... guys that you like/ dating, school clothes, you can make plans for the future weeks...maybe plan a sleepover/ party and you guys can talk about who you want there or maybe a theme, for  example in 8th grade I had a Halloween party with my friends and we spent 2 months planning in and going to costume stores to make it perfect : ).... you could plan football games to go to..and meet up there.Something my friends and I did was make t-shirts with glitterand glue for the games and do our hair all silly and fun...and we would talk about our plans for that. You could have movie nights...that leads to conversation, Good luck...and enjoy school while you can... it will FLY BY! : )