What do I wear to this wedding?

Question

The ceremony is at 1pm and the reception starts at 7:30pm. (I know rude and a pain in the butt). But what do I wear to this? I wanted to wear some formal and dressy black wide leg capri pants and a nice top, or a dress, but I am not sure what is appropriate since the times are so far apart. I am not sure if the wedding is formal or not, the invite didnt say anything about that. HELP!

Answer 1

Well, look at the invite a little more closely:

If the ceremony is in a church, house of worship, or "fancy" hotel, then it's a more formal wedding.  Dresses are great.

If it's outdoor, then it's less formal.  If it's on a beach or in someone's backyard, then still less formal.

Sundresses are great.

If the location is listed on the invite, Google it -- you'll have an idea about what the venue is like and can match your outfit with it.

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EDIT:

I disagrees with the previous poster that it's rude not to put a dress code on the invite.  If the dress is "out of the ordinary" (meaning black-tie, white-tie, or especially casual) your guests need to know, but if it's not those things, then you can easily assume that guests will wear normal wedding attire -- business casual / semi formal / whatever looks good and feels comfortable for a night of dancing.

Answer 2

Don't go too glittery, nothing too bare for the ceremony.  Might want to consider a wrap that can be removed for the reception.

Might find something here that sparks an idea.

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I'm curious as to what all the guests are to do in between the two events.

Answer 3

I would make contact with the couple to ask what dress code they would like.  It's very innapropriate for them to not include a dress code and very poor planning to have a reception so late after the wedding.  That is incredible.  I feel sorry for you.  

If you can't find out what the attire is, go for a dress as that will be acceptable whether its casual or formal.  Something like a sun dress.  

Good luck

Answer 4

the dressy pants and nice top sounds good

Answer 5

I know this may sound odd, but why don't you call the bride. Most all brides LOVE it when you call to ask. But if your hesitant on that idea, I'd suggest a simple dress, with cute strappy heals, a few light accesories and a light jacket.  If the wedding is formal or casual, this works for all of it. And with a low heal, light jacket, and simple, lighter dress, you will be fit for all weather conditions and stay comfortable. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Years ago this is how a lot of weddings were handled. Most people would take a break in between the wedding and reception. During that time they would change from a "church day dress" into something more formal for evening.

Where the reception is held should help you with how formal it is.

I wouldn't wear Capri's to a wedding,  either wear dress pants or a skirt or dress.

when in doubt call the bride or groom.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

just wear a cocktail dress or even a sun dress whether the wedding is dressy or more dressed down, a nice cocktail dress would still fit.

if in doubt, call the bride or the parents of the bride/groom.