What do I write on a sympathy card?

Question

A friend of mine had a miscarriage and a bunch of our friends are getting together and making meals and signing a card. The thing I NEVER, NEVER know what to say/write in a situation like that. Any suggestions? THANKS!

Answer 1

Any of the above.

Answer 2

You might also say you wish you could say something to make her heart feel better, but you are at a loss as to what to say.  People know how hard it is to say something, and just the fact that you are expressing you are sorry, no matter how awkwardly you do it, is appreciated.  Just don't tell her not to feel bad because she can try for more children.  I hear that's a no no.  You sound like a dear friend.  Good luck in your efforts to cheer your friend.

Answer 3

Just say that she's in your thoughts and prayers (if that's your thing).

Answer 4

I'm here for you.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do or if you just want to talk.  God Bless you.

Answer 5

Just write, "My thoughts are with you during this difficult time." Simple and thoughtful.

Answer 6

"Sorry for you tragic loss" is pretty reasonable.

Answer 7

In a sitution like this, mere words cannot express the sorrow.

My suggestion is that you and your friends stay with your original plan--make some meals, get a card of sympathy and just sign your names.  Nothing more needs to be done or said.  This simple act of kindness, compassion understanding, and full support will go further towards your friends' "getting through" such a tragedy than you could ever believe.  She needs positive reinforcemnet at this time.  Give it to her with your complete and unconditional  love.

Answer 8

My thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow.