What do YOU classify as 'cheating' or being unfaithful?

Question

Some say that just a kiss is still cheating, some say that its cheating only if you have s*x with someone else.

What do YOU think?

Answer 1

I think that there are certain boundaries that you must not break.   I think that you need to be able to trust one another.  I think that you haven't to take your vowels seriously.  I believe that you must respect ones feelings and there needs at all times.  I believe that cheating and unfaithful is one in the same.  I don't believe that by having s*x is the only thing that constitutes being unfaithful or cheating.  If you are married, then you are suppose to be 100% dedicated to your spouse.  You should respect one another and be devoted to one another at all times.  Marriage is like a job that you love, you must work at it real hard at all times.  

Answer 2

There is emotional and physical cheating. Some may prescribe to the Bill Clinton school of morals but if you are emotionally apart from your partner and your emotions are with someone else, that is cheating too, in my opinion.

Answer 3

Well, a kiss is quite an intimate loving act so if my boyfriend kissed another girl I wouldn't take it as friendship.

Answer 4

I would consider anything of a sexual nature between two or more people other than the person you are in a relationship with being cheating, whether it be a sly slow hand up the leg, a kiss, sleeping with someone, even a sensual hug. Your body is for that of only your partner and no-one else, if you allow someone elses hands to wonder or your hands to wonder then i think this is cheating.

Evey person is different with this, but as long as you clear up what you and your partner class as cheating then that is the main thing.  

Answer 5

If my partner  does something with someone else that they wouldn't do if I was standing beside them, then they're cheating!

Answer 6

I would say cheating is if you have s*x with someone other than your spouse without the consent and approval.

Answer 7

CHEATING IS EVERYTHING THAT YOU AR SIOPPOSED TO DO WITH ONLY YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR DOING IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE.....

Answer 8

i used to think it was ok if you dident get cought and if you did get cought lie!

but now i think its wrong,kissing oral and s*x is all cheating and would hurt anyone

Answer 9

a kiss is cheating, in my book...  showing yourself naked on webcam to someone else is cheating too...  having sexual conversations on the cell phone or texting is cheating too...

basically, people who get married should have this discussion before they marry...  if they don't agree on what cheating is, someone is going to cheat...  and someone is going to get hurt...

anything you would hide (kiss, hug, touch, sexual touch, grabbing someone's bootie, sexual conversation, etc...) is cheating...

if you know your spouse would be upset, don't do it...it then means you don't care about them if you do it anyway...

Answer 10

well cheating just dont happen on the sper of the moment there has to be talking or something to happen to know this other person...so the talking is the first step that leads to the kiss then to the s*x then there is the thoughts going through you mind that happens before the kiss or s*x...so just the first start to all this is a form of cheating just has different steps and different serverness too it...its all cheating just how far do you go..

Answer 11

Both are cheating.  

Answer 12

i consider kissing cheating. being unfaithful to me is doing anything that your not going to tell your partner about. most likely because you know they wont be happy about it...

Answer 13

cheating is not telling your spouse about your plans with another

Answer 14

It's different for everyone.

Cheating is sleeping with someone else, kissing, emotinal cheating.

Answer 15

All depends on who is caught and who is cheating.. I think it is very simple.. "is this I want my spouse to do also?"... if you think it's ok for your spouse to kiss someone else, then...

I think intimate conversations with opposite s*x can classify.. it really depends on your morals & the trust you two have.. I understand you may have a close friend that you tell everything to... but, if your spouse had a close friend, opposite s*x and told everything to, would you be comfortable with that... especially if you guys are having problems? look at what Clinton got away with...Would you let your spouse read your emails and text messages?

you can "joke" with opposite s*x friends, but "behind every joke, there is a bit of truth"

the face you are asking, you know the answer to this...  

Answer 16

Any sexual behavior. A good rule to help you decide if youre not sure is simply to ask yourself: Would I be doing this in front of my spouse? Or: If I saw my spouse doing this with someone else, would I consider it cheating?

Answer 17

Kissing or s*x would be cheating, anything with intent is against honesty in a relationship.

What the point in being in a relationship if you can't commit to it?

Answer 18

ITS CHEATING WHEN ONE PERSON DOES SOMETHING/ANYTHING, AND HE /SHE WOULD HIDE IT FROM THEIR SPOUSE

Answer 19

...depends on the kiss...the other day one of my male friends said "close your eyes" and then kisses me full on the lips...he though it was so funny...now is that cheating...er No... but if I liked him that way and we went out on a date with the intention of getting close ( as we are both married to other people if then i kissed him passionately then we would both be cheating...

but s*x yes cheating unless the other half doesn't mind I suppose....

Answer 20

It all depends on the intention.  

Answer 21

Cheating or being unfaithful is wrong regardless if it is touching or not.

There are no gray areas!

Answer 22

Anything that would p**s my husband off if he knew about it is considered "cheating" to me.

Answer 23

anything get physical is cheating..flirt is not..some people just like to mingle and laugh with anyone  esp if they are under social zodiac or working with people. its their lifestyle and satisfaction by talking, teasing and laugh with people to make other and themselves feel good. If you trust your partner, you can always ask him or just let go.. but to me..as long as no touching is ok, as long as he still love me.

My hubby chat with girls..i dont mind as long as he never sees her and still treat me the same..so far so good..unless otherwise. Just make fun of it than its ok.

Answer 24

I think it depends on what your intent was. A kiss can be harmless if it's from your grandmother. However a kiss from someone you just met.

Answer 25

i think letting someone into your heart and loving them while in a relantionship is worse than having meanless s*x  

Answer 26

I think intimately kissing is, i mean, if they can kiss someone else, they could do the rest, right?  for example oral doesn't count as s*x but it's d**n close.

Dreaming or thinking some one is fit and you wish you could be with them, no, i mean, people thinks that is dishonest, but you can help who or what you dream about.

Answer 27

lets say the kiss could have lead to cheating but at the mom of concent you couldn't go through with it and realized you love your partner and it all backfired and she divorced you and took your kids then i say make it worth loosing everything you ever wanted and give the slag your messing with a proper shaggin.

Answer 28

both.

i would dump someone over kissing.

if you're going to kiss, you might as well go through w/ it because your relationship is over.

Answer 29

I think even flirting is cheating. Anything you wouldn't do with your spouse by your side is cheating.

People who say oh it's just a kiss are wrong in my opinion because you were already doing something wrong to get to the point where you would kiss someone...nobody else should be that close to you.

Answer 30

Chating on-line with you is cheating.

Answer 31

meeting someone behind your partners back can be classed as cheating but generally having s*x with someone else is definetly cheating.