What do dreams usually signify..what you want? the future? What does my dream?

Question

My boyfriend, whom I loved, broke up with me 19 days ago. I long to be with him once again.

The dream: Nick [my ex] came over my house and told me 'I love you'. I said to him "Why are you saying you love me when you broke up with me like a week ago [even though in real life it's been 19 days]?" Nick said something similar to the fact that he was going through a hard time in his life, and that he does love me. He also said something similar to the fact that why would he lie to me that he loved me when I asked him to tell the truth. And, like usual when he used to come over my house, we started to make-out, which would of led to other things if I didn't wake up.

When I woke up, I was sad the dream had ended, of course.

What do you think the dream is signifying? What I want, the future, a sign?

Answer 1

In this case, this dream is about what you wish would happen.  It is your mind and heart trying to justify what he did and think of a positive outcome.

Dreams can show you your own heart, they can reveal things that are bothering you that you didn't realize, they can even offer solutions to problems, and SOMETIMES, they can tell you the future.  But, in this case, most likely, this "dream is a wish your heart makes."

Ask God to bless Nick and direct his life, and ask Him to do the same for you, and heal your heart.

God bless you,

Fairelight

Answer 2

it might simply mean what you want...it think dreams can be signs but you have to have the feeling it's a sign...the feeling is really intense you will know if you have the feeling, but i think this dream is a thinking dream, it's what you want, it's what you are thinking about, ect. sorry to say. i hope it's a sign though! haha <3

Answer 3

The dream simply reflects your feelings of loss wanting your boyfriend to return.   In your dream you appear to have mixed feelings about believing him and this demonstrates you do have good judgment and are not easily taken in by sweet words.   It also indicates some of the sexual tensions you are feeling that in the dream were pushing you to make a bad decision in believing him.   You were sad when you awaken; however, the dream does give you information on how you should handle things should this person appear again in your life.  You should also be able to apply this lesson to the next relationship you are in.

Answer 4

Dream are coming from your subconscious mind.  Sometimes things you project in the dream do not necessarily mean what they appear.

In other words, they may be symbols of some sort.  In you case, you may be feeling guilty and/or regret about the break-up.  Projecting those words I love you basically reflects what he wants to say to you in reality.  The reaction in the dream basically symbolizes some regret you have.

In translation, deep down you wanted a second chance.  Perhaps, in reality, it is not possible and that is why you projected in dream to sooth out your pain.  However, this dream does not determine your future about relationship.  It is just a reflection of how you feel.

The dream is from your subconscious mind, but the future is what you make in waking life.  If you want to get back to him, you will have to talk to him in reality, not in the dream.

good luck!

Answer 5

Perhaps it's just your unconscious relaying what you wish would happen. For Nick to come to you and tell you he loves you and claim that it was for his own personal troubles that he broke up with you over, and you did nothing wrong. If you're not sure why he broke up with you, maybe you should send him an email and ask so you can know for sure.

Answer 6

I think you are hearing what you want to hear rather than what is reality right now.  That is probably hard to hear, especially with the pain being so new.  But in time, you will see that there is a much better person out there for you.  What can you be doing in the meantime?  Join a gym, go out with friends, buy a snotty coffee at Starbucks and sit and read.  Keep busy.   :)