What do feminist women generally like in guys?

Question

Besides vaginas? Just kidding

But i am seriously wondering what do feminist women look for in a guy that they want to date? I love feminist women and would definitely love to date more!

Answer 1

Feminism happened in the seventies.  All women are feminists now.  What a silly question.

Answer 2

No, I would say mainstream feminism has won and formed society into what it wanted. Most people would be considered "feminists" if you applied it to that definition (equality), but extreme feminism has changed the interpretation of feminism... so people who are very involved in feminism today are much more radical than they used to be, and they're more likely to choose a v****a over a guy ;)... so don't get your hopes up.

It's kind of like a political party that used to stand for one thing, with a minority standing for an extreme thing... then the party successfully implements the thing it stood for, but the minority still exists that wants it to be more extreme.

Answer 3

Six feet of dirt on top of them.

Answer 4

Integrity, strength, confidence, genuine charm, humour, interest in and concern for others, kindness, honesty, self respect, respect for others, interested in improving themselves, supportive.

Answer 5

Everyone wants someone who is compatible with them, someone who shares their general beliefs and passions in life and who compliments them. Since all feminists are individuals, there is no one recipe. Most feminists would want to be with a man who respects his own feminine and masculine sides, who respects those archetypes in others, and who seeks to manifest the higher side of both genders within him.

Other than all that, you should simply be who you truly are, otherwise you're lying to the world and to yourself. No happiness can come from pretending you are something you are not. If you truly want to be happy in a relationship, you need to first and foremost be yourself, then you need to look for someone who accepts and loves you for who you are. Otherwise, if you take on some belief or characteristic that isn't really you, you will end up unhappy and you will ultimately fail the other person because you aren't being honest.

Being real is far more important than fitting into someone else's mold. I suspect that if you are already attracted to feminist women, you are probably already a feminist man. Certainly studying gender (not just feminism and women's studies), I mean the study of masculinity as well, you will have a lot that would interest a feminist woman.

Kudos to you. If you weren't so young and I weren't so taken, I'd ask you on a date ;)

Answer 6

I prefer a guy who treats me like an equal in all ways, except in bed, where anything goes.

Answer 7

Honesty, respect, intelligence and a good sense of humor.

Answer 8

They love very faithful, open-minded men who aren't afraid to say "I'm sorry"  if they've done something wrong,  and who enjoy learning new things and appreciate a woman. Feminists want someone who knows that neither s*x is superior to the other, even if some qualities are appreciated more than others.

Answer 9

Bear in mind that feminist doesnt = butch "burn the bra" type chick. The original meaning had more to do with being equal to men.

So technically, every woman should be feminist.

I look for a man that can

1-Respect me

2-Open up to me without a false pretense

3-Support my decisions

Answer 10

Vaginas.

Answer 11

A doormat, effeminate man with a good job.  

Answer 12

-caring

-idealistic

-enthusiasm for learning and life

-open minded

-not too religious

-smart

-educated

-handsome

-cares and trys to improve body, mind, and soul

-respectful

-deep

-progressive, not conservative

-lovable

-accepting and understanding

-love debating things about life

-sense of humor (any type that's not stereotypical, even perverted is good)

-obviously, believe in equality of all types

-non-stereotypical

-etc. Just a all out good and progressive man

Answer 13

guys who are very selfless with them and treat them like they are equall if not better

Answer 14

A harmonious rational mind, honorably rising vision, and consummate willful command of one's life.  And, I like for them to look studly without a shirt on.