What do girls actually want in a guy?

Question

I look around i see girls hanging out with the most wrong guys, i see girls that go out with the most bogan guys. Girls say im a nice guy, but what is it that girls actually want? im so confused. I always thought that you would have to be a nice guy in order to find a nice girl, but why then do i see this happining – nice girls going out with fully wrong guys. It makesme question myself, should i become a try hard gangster, bogan, fully wrong guy, because it seems to me that is what girls go for. But then i get told by girls that they want a nice guy and then another girl will tell me that i am a nice guy, i try so hard to be as caring and be a true gentlmen, well then how come i havnt received one bit of attention from one single girl in my intire life. What is it about me that can not offer? I think maybe it is my looks, i try my hardeist to make somthing of what i got. But maybe its just not working. Somtimes i wonder if even though girls say that it is not about looks, i think deep down it is. Somtimes i think maybe i was born with out the ability to understand girls, and thats therfore why i dont see them in my future.

Answer 1

You sound young. Try to work on your English skills and you will gain more confidence.  Being nice is great.  Girls are the ones who needed your attention.  You need to go up to them and say "HI" and smile your nicest smile with a twinkle in your eyes.  See if she smiles back.  If she does, ask her how she is doing.  Try to help her with something and listen to her talk.  If she's shy, talk to her about yourself and what you like to do.  Do you play a sport or music instrument?  

I hope you can take it from there. DO NOT expect a girl to ask you out.  You need to do it!!!  So many guys think that they need attention and then wait for girls to ask them out.  Chances are they will NOT!  Ask and then they will tell you the answer.  If they say "NO" then ask another girl.  The more you ask, one will eventually say "YES" to you.

Answer 2

The truth is that when girls are still in school they aren't really looking for a comitment type relationship but someone who they can have fun with. Girls like naughty boys when they are younger because they like thinking that they can change them. When girls get older and go to unniversity and get jobs they realise that naughty boys no longer have the commitment and they look for a nice guy who can treat thm right and who they can actually love and trust.

Girls will be in your future don't be so hard on yourself!

Good luck hope I've helpedxxxxxxx

Answer 3

HA  this is my fave quote...

a girl wants a guy that will make her laugh...that she can trust... and ya know turn her on... and its really important that these three people never meet :)

ha ha any ways... what girls really want from a guy.. is for him to want her back...

Answer 4

listen a lot of girls like different types of guys i mean u all come in different shapes and sizes u know and i guess what every girl really wants not matter how different is for a guy to just say i love u or like u and not get scared by saying what he feels i mean i would love that and i know every girl would

Answer 5

Women are just weird on that subject. The more I try to understand it the more my anger and hatred at nothing levels grow.

Try burning with hatred at every little thing... It's just a guess.

P.S. I'm Anjelina's bf

Answer 6

Some girls don't know what they want in a guy until they break up and realize all the wrong things they have done, or might not realize anything and continue going out with the bogus guys, or the guys who are jerks, or inconsiderate.

So, stay a nice guy, stay a true gentleman, it will work out for you. Don't worry. Trust me :)

Answer 7

Girls actually just want a male psychic twin who is not related to them. Or a female one if they're L*****n.

Answer 8

Girls are always searching for guys "to fix." I want a guy who is already fixed, in the sense that I can be myself and he can be himself without either of us trying to change one another. I want a man who is sincere, kind (yet at the right time protective), and outgoing. I want a man who is capable of discussing things. Also, I want a good lover.  

Answer 9

I like nice boys!!!

Cute boys, Ones that say really cute things and are real nice

Answer 10

Turn on the TV - u see most beautiful girls going out with old and or ugly men. Why? Its money