What do girls like in a guy ? ?

Question

like personality (chatty , shy , cocky )

looks (spiky hair , long , thin , fat , average , muscualar )

colour - please say this one lol (indian , white , black ,

mexicano )

dress sense ( greebo , emo , skater , gangsta , smart , normal , designer )

and any thing else !

im 15 and im looking for something to base my self on !

Answer 1

ill help u out:

personality: someone who doesnt think he has 2 be all tough and macho and stuff, and defenetly isnt 2-faced. and for me i like the chatty type because i dont want any awkward sileneces, but not TOO chatty becuase girls can tak and we want someone who can listen too. someone who doesnt flirt and check out girls behind there back, and tells how much she means to him (appreciation)



looks: ill try not to kid myself by saying looks aren't a big deal. looks do play a part in impressing and stuff, because they are the first impression and stuff. but for personalty still counts as more like 65% personalty and 35% looks. anyway, im a sucker for spiked hair if it looks good on you, but if ur gonna spike make sure ur hair is short and u DONT use too much, other wise i also lovee kinda shaggy hair, the way all the disney channle guys have it eg. jason dolley, zack and cody (lolll, but its true).

  i like some muscles but if i think ur on steriods eww...

colour- doesnt matter (honest people form allll races can be extremly hot, or extremly loser/geekey

dress sence: not tooo big on gangsa or smart. emo or skater, or normal, desiner would make me think ur kinda a show-off or snob.

for me a typical guy that i would like would wear a kinda looses polo shirt, or jersey or regular kinda loose t-shirt, with baggy shorts or jeans (and dont wear soooo low) and DONT wear skinney jeans.

and some more things in my opnion:

-acne doesnt really bother me unless its taking over ur face)

-braces are okay 2

-i wont care too much about ur looks if ur really nice and i get to know u more

-dont try to act cool if ur not, it should come naturally

-fresh breath, deodarized arms, smells good ( i know sometimes girls are like eeww i hate axe and stuff, but reall, its a turn on  ; )

umm.. cant think of much else

  

Answer 2

personality: funny, smart, outgoing, caring, fair, musical or artistic (that's just me, though)

looks: lately, I've been liking guys with short hair more.  I used to like guys with long hair, but then it just became so popular that I liked guys that went went against the flow (again, this is just how I am, and I want a guy kinda' like me)

colour: white

dress sense: no designer (I don't give a c**p if you want to wear any designer stuff, I couldn't care less), NO EMO/skater/gangsta c**p.  I like a guy who just wears jeans or shorts and a tee shirt.  If he thinks about it too much, I start thinking he's g*y.

misc: You need to care about the girl. Oh, and most importantly a musical taste.  I don't care if it's good musical taste, but you need to have one.  I hate guys who just listen to whatever's popular at the moment.  Get a personality.   Good luck!

Answer 3

well i am a girl and i like when the boy is

sweet

handsome

masculine

has musscle

dresses well(abercrombie hollister)

brave

popular

different

hot

Answer 4

honest caring and just be comfortable with yourself and that will be your best bet ..... clothes etc is just the wrapping the present is what is inside you and you cant disguise that with wrapping.  From Sandy. Australia.

Answer 5

well withh me and probally most girlss

personality would be sort of cocky but he HAS to be able to make laugh and be able to have a nice conversation with

looks i guess i would say muscular or average

color which really doesnt matter if i had to pick i would say white

dress sense would deffinately be normal

i dont know what greebo is?

emo i dont like

i dont like skater either

gansta i dont like

i dont like nerds so not smart

designer is good though

don t be shy around girls be confident

make sure you have guy friends and arent a loser

and arent a loner

anyway good luck

Answer 6

hate cocky-ness.. i like it when boys are shy. its cute.

i like themm not SUPER thin. and pretty muscular.

it doesnt matter the colour

normal... but then again im in love with the tight jeans. they are hot.

so i guess skaterissh..  hate emo and gangsterrr.

i like em' nice. sweet funny athletic sort off.

likes to do things with their girllll.

doesnt just sit around all day and play video games

:D

Answer 7

personality- confident... girls like sweet guys bt not too cheesy all the time (thats just annoying) and be origional.!

looks - all girls r difrent... i like guys with nice lips =] bt thats just me... look after your skin.! kuz no1 finds pimples or black heads attractiv.!! good skin can make people look up to 70% more attractiv.!

abs r always nice tooo haha

Colour - well to be honest colour doesnt matter 4 me.. ive seen really attractiv indians, asians, white people and black people.. i think i personally perfer black guys though... bt i think asians are really s**y too haha

Dress - once again i think just b origional... i love skaters style.. definatly think thats the best.! not so keen on smart dressing unless its for an occasion... definalty not into gang colours.!!!

Answer 8

personality [ funny & not afraid to talk to much]

looks [ average but cute]

color shouldn't matter

dress sense [ skater, surfer ]

good sense of humor :]

Answer 9

Well it varies according to female. It's an extremely subjective topic.

But personally I'm attracted to ambitious, kind, intelligent, bit snarky, funny, and intellectual men!

Answer 10

personally, i like guys that arent afraid to be themselves.

be confident, dont be a pushover lol and u shud be good :)

but def. dont try to make urself something ur not to get girls to like you, we dont like fake  

Answer 11

buy a leather jacket ,motorcycle, and jump a shark

that shud do it

and girls LOVE cocky

they will deny it to the death tho (because its embarrassing)

Answer 12

personality:

i like an outgoing friendly guy but i think shyness is definately cute. i think a little bit overly confident is also real cute, but not cocky. thats just annoying. I don't like it when guys always feel the need to impress a girl or something. no one likes a show off. I like them to be funny, nice, respectful, and just fun to be  around. spontaneous is good too.

looks:

i like them to be tall and skinny but still muscular. not really muscular, but just enough. i dont know why, and im the only one of my friends that is turned on by that. in general i like guys to be dark haired but a blondie never hurts anyone. and eye color doesnt matter, but i go CRAZY for a boy with longg thick eyelashes.

color:

totally doesn't matter. i think black/white mixes are pretty hot though, they always have a perfect skin tone.

dress sense:

i dont want him to look like he got dressed in the dark. a style of his own is best.  

Answer 13

Ok, there is not a "Certain Look", it all depends on  the girl. What is attractive to one may not be for another- Be yourself and I guarantee someone will fall in love with you. Good luck!

Answer 14

be yourself.

why are you asking people to tell you what girls like in guys?

you cant be every guy that girls want.

and i agree with <3..girls seriously do hate labels.

they're lame

just like this question.

Answer 15

just be yourself...

if you don't know who that is yet, try out a few different looks at home and see how that fits. the most important thing is that you're comfortable in your skin and treat girls with respect and kindness.

Answer 16

Looks = short - mid-length hair, average weight

Color = white

Dress Sense = normal (wtf is greebo?!)

I love a guy with a great personality: smart, funny, and focused; not one that gets in trouble all the time. Also a sensitive guy that isn't perverted or anything.

Answer 17

Confidence and intelligence

Tall and thick with dark hair and eyes

White or latin (though this area is less important to me)

Clean cut

Respect for women

Answer 18

Personality: Shy for sure.

Looks: Long flipped hair

Body: Average

colour/lol: doesnt matter

Dress Sense: emo, normal, skater, or designer

im 15 too, and yeah so you should base it on this, tons a girls like these styles.

oh especially when boys have SWOOPED BANGS.

Answer 19

cocky, muscular, race doesn't matter, gangsta, and not a nerd

Answer 20

Deffinatley not cocky!! Girls hate that.

A mix between shy and chatty. Not soo chatty that the girl cannot get a word in, but not so shy that they cant keep a convo going.

Average-Muscular.

White-Tan

Normal, not trashy but it does not need to be designer.

Not that I can think of but if you have any questions feel free to e-mail me.

Good Luck!

Answer 21

likes to talk to her more than anyone

i like the person not the race

emo gansta smart normal anything as long as ur not a poser

we want you to be you not some one else cuz if we wanted someone else wed go find them you know.

im fourteen so yeah i share the same opinion as a lot of girls our age.

i dont like acne so yeah

stay in shape

dont be a poser be yourself  

Answer 22

um i am a girl it depends on what you like? who are you some advice: when you like a girl never be anything but yourself because they need to be able to like you for who you are who knows someone may love you right now if you change they may change there mind. me personally would like a cute fun outgoing nice guy that does not act like a jerk or like he is all that like mr. perfect just a cute fun normal amzaing guy

Answer 23

BEING YOURSELF ALL THE TIME,

not shady,

trustable,

hott.

personality, shy is sometimes cute not always, confortatble and easy to get along with.

looks average body size, hair not to short.

colour -tanned, whatever nationality it may be

.. NO GUIDOS.

dress sense grundge, preppy

Answer 24

Personality: NOT PERVERTED ALL THE TIME. Funny, confident, smart, caring, honest, loyal, faithful, not racist.

Looks: Shaggy hair, tall, 6 pack(not overly muscular).

Color - Uh...usually I like white guys, but I'll give almost anyone a chance.

Dress sense - Skater.

Answer 25

First of all, it depends on the girl. But personally I like:

personality-shy/funny

looks-i hate when guys are way too muscular it bugs me. and scrawny guys are creepy looking lol. i like average body type.

race/color: doesn't matter to me

dress sense- what is normal? 0_o lol i like skater, but smart guys are cute too ^^

By the way, you really shouldn't base yourself on what girls want. Just be who you are, dress how you want, and you will find a girl who likes you for you. Not how you dress or what your hair looks like. To be honest, I could fall for any guy as long as theyre sweet and they care about me. And the thing I hate most are guys who pick on other people to gain popularity, I hate it! Lol well I hope this helped.

Answer 26

the most important thing is honesty, so basing yourself off of a general ideal is stupid.

Every person likes different things, I like smart *** guys, my best friends likes sweet guys.

She likes tall lean muscular guys, I prefer broad shouldered over weight guys.

Both of us are from a place with a 98% white population so it never really came up, Though I like medium guys with dark hair and eyes. English as first language.

She likes guys who dress to impress, I like dirt-bag guys who wear jeans and t-shirts,

She likes romantic guys, I like goofy guys.

There is no standard. Just be yourself and don't be a jerk. Girls like guys who make them feel good about themselves.  

Answer 27

well looks are first but the personality that's what really counts i usually like someone is clean, smart (normal) and have a funny side to them and respect me and my friends

Answer 28

depends on the girl

and stop with that greebo, emo, skater, gangsta etc c**p.

i'm a girl and personally hate stupid labels

be you and a girl somewhere will like you

i happen to like shy guys btw

but some girls like the other two

Answer 29

confidence, dare, bravery, and health.and also some wealth.

Answer 30

Intelligence, the more masculine the better, color don't matter, dress don't matter, jeans and t-shirt fine.  Stability is very important to me.

Answer 31

personality: cocky is hilarious, and shows your confident

looks: tall, average (buff sucks), preferably dark hair

color: i couldn't really care about this one, sry

dress sense: sk8r, normal, or designer. black band tee with beat up baggy jeans is totally cool

don't base yourself on something your not. be yourself, let the quirky person in you shine. people will <3 it.