What do girls want to take home?

Question

okay so i consider myself a better than average looking guy also i consider myself to have a great personality but only once u get to know me i am very shy and i kinda let myself get out of shape and dont really give myself the greatest attention anymore like when i go out i think i should wear nicer clothes and stuff and also do my hair and i need to get into shape right? I dont know that is why i need your girls help does it matter what guys look like if u meet him and does it help to have a good body like maybe a six pack and stuff? let me know please!

Answer 1

Shallow girls care about ONLY looks, but most girls at least like an effort at looking decent. Maybe work out a little, keep yourself clean looking, not like you just got out of jail. I'm more attracted to personality, but I would never date someone who didn't care about themselves enough to at least keep themselves up. You don't need a six pack, you don't even need to be skinny, but objectively..look at yourself in the mirror, and ask yourself if I was a girl, would I be acceptable to myself? srs.

Answer 2

a nice guy loving and caring and is there when times get rough  

Answer 3

NO it really doesnt matter as long as your not really really out of shape and as long as your not lazy

Answer 4

A douche bag will be helpful for this situation. Thanks

Answer 5

A good body is cool but those guys don't have nothing to offer sometimes. My thing is a guy have to have something going for hisself, knows what he wants out of life. Have a very good personality. And knows how to treat his woman like queen.

Answer 6

lose the snack pack and you'll be good to go

Answer 7

of course a girl is going to look at your body but if that's the only thing she cares about then she is not worth it. you should just be yourself and not think about what the girl thinks. dont be afraid to let that great personality come out!!

Answer 8

are you really asking a question here? is it really not that obvious??

Answer 9

Although girls may be instantly attracted to better looking guys, if you have a good personality and a great sense of humour they will ultimately end up going for guys like you.

The best advice I can give you is to act confident. That's the biggest turn on for girls.

Answer 10

Honestly, it depends on the girl you plan on attracting. It sounds cliche and cheesy, but if you're looking for the substantial type of girl who will stick around through the good and bad, then how you look won't matter nearly as much as who you are, how you behave, and how you treat her. Don't waste your time changing yourself for a girl -- if they don't accept you how you are then you should hardly return the favor. If you want the six pack and the hair and whatever, do it for yourself. To make yourself happier and healthier, never for someone else.

All in all, just get to know someone. I personally dig shy guys. ;)

Answer 11

it helps for most girls but if your girl likes you now then ask her if your trying to get a girl some girls like 6 packs some just like personalities:] goodluck with the choice