What do i do, he just stopped?

Question

so me and this guy were totally into eachother in the begining of the summer and we made it know to eachother. we hung out like everyday at the beach, and then i lost my cell phone. he pretty much made no effort to talk to me after that. i got a new phone about three weeks later and tried to text him at least 5 times during 2 weeks, because i didnt want to look desperate, and he didnt answer back. then i tried calling him one time and he didnt pick up. after that i just stopped trying. yesterday when he passed me at the back to school dance he cam up to me and gave me a hug and asked me how i've been. i asked him why he hasnt been talking to me and he said thats because i havent talked to him. i explained to him what i've been doing and he said that is phone is "turned off until the fourth" when i know that it totally isnt because hes been texting my friends. when a slow dance came on, i when over to him vert flirtly and pulled him away from his friends and said that he was going to dace with me. after like 10 seconds, his hands dropped down to his sides and he looked away from me, so i pushed him away.

since he just stopped, should i just stop trying?

Answer 1

Yeah, don't waste your time on him. He obviously has some issues.

Answer 2

Although many say guys and girls are very different, I don't agree. When I'm into a girl and she seems to lose interest in me I do exactly what you are considering, I stop trying, and they always start to show interest again. I mean I can't guarantee anything, but you should give it a shot. And, if he's still a jerk then he's just not worth it. And, this is coming from a guy.

Answer 3

Came on too strong

Answer 4

i think that you should just basically stop because apparently he doesnt want to be with you. ithsz a good thing that you tried to make effort but apparently he doesnt wanna be with you. i know ithsz hard but ithsz the truth. just find someone else who likes you and appreciatesz you. =]

Answer 5

Yes hes lost his interest in you

Answer 6

well, I'd say it sounds like he isn't very nice. 1) hes lying to you (his phone being off) 2) he just stopped dancing with you? and looked away? that seems kind of rude! I'd say you can do better for yourself. But thats just my opinion. I hope it works out! :)

Answer 7

Yes. Stop trying. Think about it: when you are into someone, you think about them constantly and try to get in contact with them as much as possible, especially in the beginning of the relationship. (That's what you did.) He isn't doing any of that, and his response to you at the dance was very defensive and a lie to boot, with him blaming you for lack of communication. You deserve to date a guy who will treat you with respect and who is into you. Stop contacting him. You're acting desperate. I can't believe I'm saying this, but maybe you should read "He's Not Into You," so you'll know the signs of guys you should steer clear from. There. I said it. :P Guys who will treat you nicely will do so from the get-go. Keep this in mind. Good luck!

Answer 8

yes leave him alone!!!  He isn't into you anymore

He is suppose yo be chasing you not you chasing him.  Plus he's to coward to talk to you about it.  Move right along to the next best thing/guy!

Answer 9

It seems he's sending you mixed signals. I think he likes you, but isn't quite ready to go there yet. Give him some space, he might come around!

Answer 10

just give up on him i know it will hurt you but just give up on me he doesn't  like u so whats the point of liking him

Answer 11

yes.  stop throwing yourself at some guy who's not interested.  if you know he's lying about his phone being turned off then that's reason enough to just stop trying to talk to him.  in the end you're the one who's just gonna look desperate and you dont want that.

Answer 12

You were his summer fling. Stop trying hes not worth it

Answer 13

move a little slower, maybe youll figure him out.  who knows, he's pretty darn confusing.

Answer 14

deff. he's not worth it. things happen in the summer. i would know,  

Answer 15

Girl u've tried enough from what i've know. Let him be the one chasing after u this time round.

Answer 16

Drop the loser and after that he will try to get you back.

Answer 17

Why do you have to be attached to one person? I mean, if they decided to tease you and then ignore, then enough is enough.

Don't be such a drag and find other boys.

Answer 18

Yes. If he wants you so badly, then he would make an effort. Move on. This guy doesn't deserve your time.

Answer 19

this guy is an a**hole forget him and move on.  

Answer 20

Both of you guys sound really wierd so no way, you two were meant for each other.

Answer 21

he sounds like a player and i wouldn't bother with him you're better than that. and you deserve better treatment. I wouldn't wasted my time.

Answer 22

no, don't stop.  you keep on beating that dead horse for all you're worth.

Answer 23

sounds like both you clowns are acting childish. Find someone who is a little more mature for the good. If he isn't calling you don't call him back and move on.  

Answer 24

yes. im sure he will come running back to u wen he realizes wat he's done

Answer 25

YES.

hes obviously playing games, its better to just let it go and find someone who will appreciate you.

Answer 26

Stop trying to do what ?

Answer 27

Yeah you should, he's trying to lead you on. I'd say ignore him.

Answer 28

I think that this boy may like you but he may not want to get teased by his friends. Granted it's not uncommon for the kids now a days, both boys and girls to tease each other about the opposite s*x. It does appear a bit odd about the phone situation, however there may be some truth to that or maybe he has a girlfriend that he doesn't want you knowing about.  

Answer 29

no, if he embarrsed you like that, get in to his head and embarres him jus as bad

Answer 30

Nothing makes you lose your confidence more than repeated rejections.  Definately stop and just have fun with your other friends until someone takes an interest in being more than a friend.  

Answer 31

Yes~~you were brave to push him away.  Glad you just stopped trying.