What do i do, she can't o****m?

Question

hi,

well, i need a little help, my girlfriend won't/can't o****m, its no that she doesn't like s*x or the like, she loves it. but she doesn't o****m. the longest she has gone for was 3 hours and no o****m.

and i know she still likes it, but i would love to make her o****m. give her something he hasn't had before.

thanks.

Answer 1

there are twenty six ways to do her you won't ever learn because really you don't care about her do you? If you did truly want to please her you would have already read the three books of pleasing the woman and giving her multiple orgasms from places like under her ear lobe and her thigh but then you don't care really do you? why would you ask here and not the librarian? It could be it's a mental thing on her behalf and she keeps it hidden from you because she already knows you aren't the one?maybe it's because she is afraid to scare you off for one of many possible reasons? I could list but here isn't the place In fact I think now that I have gotten into it here for your own benefit talk to her and find out how her orgasms are? Vaginal? Clitoral? Anal? Oral? Tickling, kissing, l*****g, rubbing, touching, pinching, spanking, hot melted wax, humiliations galore? Maybe from breast play or nipple attention even clamps? maybe she punches in the face or tightens down so good you think you are in a food processor. maybe she squirts and it scared her to death when she was young and she doesn't want to scare you away. Maybe she flatuates during o****m and you really don't want to go there do you matey?

Answer 2

its rare for a girl to reach o****m through vaginal stimulation alone she probably needs clitoral stimulation as well

omgg dont say she needs a doctor. my boyfriend did the same thing and it made me feel insecure. cuz i had problems reaching o****m with clitoral stimulation alone as well. but then i finally relaxed and didnt TRY to reach o****m and it happened

remember its about the process not the product

Answer 3

Sometimes, it takes a long time before a girl can have an o****m. How long have you been going out? She might need a couple of months, even. She might be a little tense, or there might be too much going on in her head. And the stress caused by not being able to o****m probably doesn't help with that either.

Foreplay is very important. Take you time, try new things and see what she likes. Oral is also very good, but sometimes no matter how good it feels to a girl, you might just not be hitting the right spot, or stimulating it in the way that she needs to finish. Experiment with it. Have fun, relax. Also, I'd like to point out that your fingers can do what the rest of you can't.....namely, bend and move in lots of interesting ways. Sometimes it's much easier for a woman to get off through such stimulation, as opposed to actual s*x.

Also, I'd like to suggest that you google "s*x with Sue". It has a lot of very good information about orgasms and how women may experience them.

Answer 4

Foreplay. Foreplay. Foreplay.

If Foreplay then s*x doesn't work, or even in general three hours of s*x...  she might having something wrong...

Answer 5

I agree with Hickey14, but I would also try a vibrator

Answer 6

Maybe it's her with the problem - she might have a low libido or hormonal issues, or stress that's preventing her from having an o****m. If she has orgasms on her own, maybe she could m********e in front of you so you see how she likes to be touched. Mostly these things are communication issues, you two need to talk about this more and work out what will make s*x better for you both.  

Answer 7

Communication is definitely a good start. Woman can achieve o****m, some woman are more clitoral and some are more vaginal and some are a combination of both. You need to find out which one she is. Now if she is clitoral you need to find her clitoris by using your fingers(might I suggest they not be dry) gently or your tongue. Start with the fingers and slowly rub in a circular motion until the clitoris starts to become engorged(just like your p***s) it is all about pressure and consistency when it comes to the clitoris. Once it becomes engorged then use your tongue(the moisture and the texture of your tongue will only help in this process). While you are doing this take your other hand and caress her leg from her knee to her thigh and then with one or two or three fingers slowly enter into the opening of her v****a and keep in mind be gentle and let her tell you to go faster, harder, slower etc.. and as you feel her clitoris getting harder you can switch back to your fingers on the clitoris and your fingers in the v****a either with one hand or using both(it depends on how talented your are) and if you can work a little on her b*****s. Ask her if it feels okay as long as you keep working on the clitoris you should be heading in the right direction. Don't treat this like a job or it is not going to work.  When she is ready only then can you insert your p***s and continue making love to her. This should give you a good start on helping her have an o****m. Just keep in mind some woman take more time. Don't be selfish, take care of her needs and in the long run your needs will be taken care of also.

Answer 8

its nothing u can do .its sm worng with her .check in a doctor  

Answer 9

go to:wikianswers.com

is really help ful!

:)

Answer 10

These two articles help woman o****m with their partners:

How to Locate the G Spot During s*x- From Behind

http://www.ehow.com/how_4448654_locate-g...

How to Locate the G Spot During s*x- Missionary Position

http://www.ehow.com/how_4451153_locate-g...

Hope they answer your questions!

Answer 11

Oral s*x is great but to be honest she needs to be able to have one.

Do you know if she has had one by herself. Encourage her to do that.

tell her it is very natural. But to be honest she has to get to know her body to be able to start controlling some of that.

Theres only so much you can do..

But do your part. If she has never.. Don't even think she will have one while you are inside her. That may happen but way later. Everything is outside. Also encourage her to communicate to you... s*x does not have to be silent... there are ways to talk :-)

GL

Answer 12

give her oral before you have s*x!  

Answer 13

you probably have a small d**k or your bad in bed lol

Answer 14

The C**t, man.

Give her oral and go for l*****g the C**t.

Do it long enough and she'll definitely o****m.

Answer 15

because you suckk ...

lol jk .

idk some ppl dont